Scenario: He/She is your friend and He/She likes you....+ more (Advice anyone?)

<p>So, it began with a simple email from an unknown person and has led all the way to AIM, chatting and flirting late into the night. The person (I’ll just call them Person A) had given you so much clues as to who they are and of course you are excited since you have a secret admirer. </p>

<p>As the months passed, you find out more and more about Person A and your feelings grow. But then, one day, you finally confront Person A about who they are and you realize He/She was a distant friend of yours all along, a friend that you thought to already have a girlfriend/boyfriend. </p>

<p>It gets even more complicated because you realize how much Person A cares about you all these years, never forgetting your birthday, even when others have. Then, there is Person A’s “on and off” (Person A says it is off for sure) girlfriend/boyfriend who also happens to be a friend of yours.</p>

<p>You were sucked into this situation, your feelings wavering, and now you have to make a choice.</p>

<p>What would you do? Advice anyone?</p>

<p>That’s interesting. Seriously.</p>

<p>Well, how do you feel about them? I would take some time to spend more time with Person A as a friend and think about my feelings; I wouldn’t act until I knew how everyone involved, including myself, felt.</p>

<p>I’d also talk to the ex, though. Just to make sure they are off.</p>

<p>how lovely</p>