As a parent, it’s nerve wracking.
Your son does have one weak spot in his profile - only two years of a foreign language. Assuming that’s Spanish 1-2, it could hurt at a UC - which recommends three but requires two.
But all his toss ups are safeties - and honestly, it’s not even close. Your son is so beyond the admission profile of each school. And given you have money, the privates will love you - not to mention, you are from across the country and some you’ve chosen are regional.
School of Mines - I can’t find their CDS but I know it’s gotten easier over the years. Big future reports a 61% acceptance and you are over both the GPA and SAT. And they don’t list foreign language as a requirement. I did find a page from them with a 3.84 GPA and 31 ACT - and they are test optional so not all are submitting. This is a safety. If they’re the same as they used to be, get on their email list - and they’ll send you a free app. The issue now is budget - they are $65K for tuition, room and board - but they give up to $10K a year. I’m guessing you’d get that but you never know but don’t forget about annual inflation and it’s the kind of area moving off campus can cost more. But if you want to ski - what a great school!!
RIT requires no language and recommends a year. Less than half test - with the average ACT a 32. 70% + get in and of those that do, they yield less than 1 and 7. Take out ED and their yield is really low. They need you a lot more than you need them. The only question is - how much merit will you get? COA is $82K - but they say they offer $14K to $30K annually - so they may get to budget but it’s not assured.
WPI admits 62% - it’s another school that needs you more than them. Their yield is a bit better than RPI but take out ED and it’s still low. Again, affordability is the question. Tuition room and board are over $80K. Admission isn’t an issue - your budget is. My guess is you’d get a minimum $25K - the Presidential.
RPI and WPI are schools that need you far more than you need them. They’re great schools but that’s the marketing place today.
The issue with CU Boulder isn’t admission - they admit 2/3 of candidates and you are far beyond the norm. Occasionally they offer engineering hopefuls Exploratory - which is still an easy path to engineering - and cheaper the first year - so not a worry. What is a worry is the cost - For engineering, direct costs are $71,000 - and it looks like now merit may be between $1500-2500. When my kids went, they both got $6250 a year - and it seemed that was near everyone. So if $65K is the budget, you can find better schools. And the tour guide was honest - when people move off - if they stay in the vicinity, they pay more - or they go to a neighboring town to save money. That’s why I noted Colorado State and Oregon State - they are both WUE schools.
But your toss ups are safeties and it’s not even close. And RPI - like RIT and WPI - they admit 67%, you are from CA and so far over the average - it’s not even close. It’s an easy in. As about the RPI medal for $40K off. But even without, I’m guessing they’ll hit with merit. Tuition, room and board is $86K or so.
But like RIT and RPI and others (Rose Hulman, even Case Western), these schools need yo ufar more than you need them. But rejection isn’t happening - it could at Case if you added - if you didn’t express interest.
Purdue - a match I think but would hit cost and Ga Tech - yes a reach. You need one acceptance - that’s it - that’s affordable. WIth your list, you are not getting a wall of denial.
I’ll give you an example - my son interned with two kids from a high reach school you just mentioned - as well as LSU, Ole Miss, Tennessee Tech, Tex A&M I think - and more. He went back a second summer.
At the same time, if you look at Ga Tech career stats - I don’t know how long after graduation they were taken but in 2025, for Mechanical, 71% of kids who wanted jobs found them at whatever the reading with a median $82.5K. Ga Tech only gets data from 35% of the students - I don’t know about the major. My son, not from Ga Tech, started at about that salary (before a 10% target bonus) three years ago.
As a contrast, U of Alabama gets data from most its MechEs - 90.7% in spring of 25. Only 5% were still seeking at last report - and the average salary was $78K. So better success and likely less money - but it’s an average vs. tech a median - but not far.
Not all schools easily report salary data - hence I use the comparison. But for your son, Bama is $22K a year - because of automerit because of his academic profile - $30.5K - so then you decide, is spending $65K a year worth it? Only you can decided. Their NMF deal is arguably the best - so they have amongst the most in the country.
What do others MechEs earn as reported by the school:
RPI - I don’t know the knowledge rate - meaning I’m not sure if they get from all but in 2024 (2025 is locked), the average MechE salary was $77,865.
UMN - which I recommended as a sub for Wisconsin - because of budget. In 2024, MechE was $76,100 - so same year as RPI but a year behind Ga Tech and Bama.
U Michigan - again, don’t know the knowledge rate. I believe, rightly or wrongly, a low knowledge rate overstates the # but they show an $86.1K average MechE Salary and an $85K median (which you can compare to Ga Tech). I put it there and your son is worthy of applying but it’s $20K over your budget.
I mentioned Rose Hulman - an engineering focused small school in the middle of nowhere - it shows 96% placement at $77.2K.
WPI has a 97% knowledge rate - so they know about most everyone. They show a mean of $74.7k and a median of $76.5K with about 1 in 8 seeking employment 6 months out. I appreciate a school like this that is forthright with more data.
I got a UC for you - UCB - they show $105K median, so $20K+ more than Ga Tech - but that might be one is placing in the SE and one is placing in the Bay area.
One more - Missouri S&T was raised. It used to be Missouri-Rolla, a branch campus if you well and the state made it into a tech focused school. No knowledge rate but it’s average salary for MechE at the Bachelor level shows $77.2K. If 7K kids in a small town in the middle of nowhere is something he’d want, it’s a gem - not known by the world but absolutely known by people who need to - employers.
I tried to get Purdue - they used to be open with their data which I appreciate but unless I am missing something, they’ve now locked it to the outside.
But most schools are within range of one another. Some have higher hiring rates, etc. And I wouldn’t worry about where I want to be - you apply for jobs where you want to be. My son’s 6 offers were all over - and 3 years out, he’s in Irvine - and his first role with the company was in Ogden, Utah. But you will end up in jobs based on where you apply, etc. - so if he went East or midwest and wanted to come home, it’s far from impossible.
Here’s what I would decide -
My drop dead budget and I’d set it $10K less. Why ? Inflation, you have to get there, what if he joins a fraternity (even a professional one) or goes on Spring Break trips. Now, at some places, like where my son went, living off campus saves $$. At others, like where my daughter went - it cost more.
So going to a Ga Tech or Mines or CU will likely cost more off campus where an ASU or U of A can be the other way, etc.
After budget - does he want enormous or mid size or small? Does he he need to be in a city or adjacent to a city or does he want to be in the wilderness.
Yes, UMN is a sub for UWisc - both are big mid west flagships and I chose UMN purely on budget but yes, it’s an easier admit. But Minneapolis is huge - maybe he doesn’t want that. Madison is mid size and on a lake.
So those type things.
Sports, religion, anything else that matters.
Is there a career interest? My son wanted cars and we picked schools with either a Formula SAE Team or a Formula SAE and ecoCAR team. Few schools have ecoCAR (UCD is one) but many have Formula SAE. It’s not just a question of having them - talk to kids at the school - do first years participate? If so, how.
The SE is huge for automotive because that’s where manufacturing is - so if that was an interest, maybe UNCC or Clemson (too much $$) or Bama or Miss State come in the mix, etc. If he wants to work in aero (which my son now does even though he wanted and interned in automotive) but if he wanted aero, maybe Rocket City works - UAH (Huntsville, AL). If he doesn’t know what he wants or he prefers a specific region (like he prefers to be out West), there’s no shortage of solid schools.
I’d worry more about budget and sticking with it and then what he wants in a school - then chasing a name.
CU or ASU are very different than - a WPI or RIT, etc. - if that makes sense.
If he busts tail, all will lead to success.
Here’s something to think about - 50% of engineers don’t finish - whether difficulty, change of major desire - is he 100% set or not - because if he’s going to change, would he want to be at a more limiting school major wise?
I think your list works as is - but a couple have me concerned because of the budget.
But the wall of rejection on the toss ups and below plus RPI - just aren’t going to happen.
Best of luck.