<p>College counselors come in all sorts. But they earn their keep doing it. Some are crappy, more bluster than savvy. But when parents are so off, the kid may not be clear on goals, process and presentation, maybe a pro beats the son’s friend’s mom trying to fill those shoes.
In fairness to this kid, are you really the right resource? This isn’t some ordinary situation. I honestly don’t know if you CAN help him to the extent he needs</p>