<p>First of all, he is my first boyfriend. We started out as best friends at school and then long distant couple when I moved to the U.S. Whenever I chat with him on the webcam, my mom always come over and start glaring at him, calling him names and saying that “he doesn’t suit you”/“he’s really ugly”/“it’s not even love, you guys are too young” (I’m 17…)
To me, he’s the sweetest guy in the whole world even though it’s really hard to contact him and sometimes he’s a bit procrastinator. But my mom always bugging me with her own point of view and they even could be offensive. Because of that, I rarely let my bf call me.
What should I do? (I can’t ignore her here ><)</p>
<p>nothing, honestly.</p>
<p>lie low, and call him whenever your mother isn’t around.</p>
<p>Your mom needs to realize you have different taste from her.</p>
<p>My own mother likes bigger built guys, whereas I love skinny guys. Thus, we don’t share the same opinion of guys’ attractiveness at all. Though, she thinks I should date someone like the behavioral psychologist on Criminal Minds. I wouldn’t mind that at all. lolpun.</p>
<p>i think your mom might feel ready for you to date yet. she probably still thinks of you as her “little girl,” but doesn’t want to say that outright so she picks at your boyfriend instead. </p>
<p>i would say have a sit down, serious talk with your mom and explain how you feel about this, how he’s really a nice guy and it’s hurtful when she insults him. and if that doesn’t work just call him when she’s not there.</p>
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<p>It took me so long to figure out where this came from</p>
<p>^ still trying.</p>
<p>Criminal Minds… wouldn’t mind
Is that the pun? If it is, I’m sorry, but it is bad even for a pun.</p>
<p>^He’s right.</p>
<p>my dad has a friend who sent him a Xmas card saying his daughter just went out with a guerrilla</p>
<p>It was 3 am when I wrote that. That is my only pathetic excuse.</p>
<p>Haha, imagine you get home earlier than usual and catch your mum and your bf hahahahhahahahahahah wouldnt that be the most hilarious scene ever !!</p>
<p>Catching you and your english teacher would be even more hilarious</p>
<p>Basically, your mom really cares about you and that is why she is acting the way she is. My suggestion is to stand your ground. If you really like or love him, then you should stick with it. Age never matters when it comes to a relationship (despite what anyone says). All that matters is how you and your special someone feels and the maturity level. Stand you ground. Eventually your mom will give in and support you but right now she is fighting to make sure her “baby girl” is in the good caring hands of her mother.</p>
<p>Your mother could have a good point.</p>
<p>^ That he is ugly?</p>
<p>v idk, I just suggest that the OP re-evaluate the situation.</p>
<p>Lol CC is acting oddly again. This post is supposed to be below.</p>
<p>from my experience so far, ugly boys are smart and have good personality, cute boys are horny and immature</p>
<p>What kinda mother do you have!? Lolol.</p>
<p>I’m not a girl. However, I’m guessing that if your mom says your bf is ugly, then he is pretty f’ing ugly.</p>
<p>idk. my mom (albeit, a female) would probably be like “[indignation]why does everyone think Jessica Alba is so good looking? she is nothing compared to Farrah Fawcett!! [/indignation]” lol</p>