My daughter played club VB for 5 years and was on varsity for several years. Her playing time was wildly different each year. Some years she played very little, some years I think she really had too much playing time and we both would have preferred her to sit out and let some of her friends in the game. I have always tried not to discuss my irritation with playing time because in our case across multiple kids it has tended to even out over the years.
I would let the daughter decide what is the most fun for her.
Regarding someone’s Comment above about how their daughter would be pulled from a club if playing time were bad- at the most expensive club my daughter played for, it was in the contract that we were playing for practice time not playing time and the club director routinely went after parents who tried to leave without paying for the season. He bragged about it. We only did that club for one year and the playing time decisions were insanely unequal (worse for other kids, not great for my kiddo) and D and I had the only dry eyes on the team when the team was finally defeated in Orlando. Thank god the season is over, we both said. LOL. I am having playing time drama flashbacks. So OP I do have empathy for you.