I’d definitely recommend doing some research about softball recruiting for D3 schools and how complicated that can be. Would you be OK with her picking X school over Y school because they need a pitcher instead of a shortstop? Is she willing to practice 4 hours per day on top of her classes and work (plus any unofficial practices)? There are definitely other ways to play sports in college that aren’t so intense. Softball and volleyball are both pretty universally offered at club/intramural level.