Ok…now I’m confused. One of my kids did two high school sports (swimming and track). That same kid still had time for lessons on two musical instruments, children’s choir in 9th and 10th grade, and precollege wind ensemble and orchestra (all day every Sunday) for all four years of high school at a conservatory. And the kid also played in her high school ensemble, and was in the school musical every year too.
Why wouldn’t this OP’s kid be able to play volleyball and softball at school…and also do her instrument.
And my kid was able to take drivers ed, get her flu shots, and have fun too.
I don’t understand why playing two high school sports is such a huge issue in terms of her time.