Yes, people in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones, etc., but I think the discussion could be had WITHOUT any snipes about the appearance of the commenter. People, especially young women are judged WAY too much on appearance. We would have a lot healthier society if people honestly had a wider frame of beauty, health and attractiveness rather than hourglass and anorexic ideals only. There are millions of people on the planet and LOTS of different kinds of healthy, attractive folks. To me, that is the important thing that we need to remind our loved ones of, especially if they don’t fit the “traditional” form of beauty or attractiveness. Too many have done awful things to themselves in the name of “beauty.”