My unsolicted advice is to keep the counseling in mind, maybe even better to establish a relationship with a good therapist before any big problems arise?
IMO, having a therapist to talk to is much more common for teens these days and there isn’t nearly as much stigma attached to it.
Seems like stuff comes up that most kids will not feel comfortable sharing with their parents, even within the context of a close relationship. It can be so hard for them to find their place in their world.
Good luck & nice to read your update!