<p>why would girls look @ guys chests? its not like we have cleavage or anything</p>
<p>…Damn. So he’s either lying or I’m ugly. ):</p>
<p>Muscle-y chests and shoulders are eye candy Elmo. I think girls are more about the total package appearance-wise, while boys, er, hone in on certain things.</p>
<p>^ i doubt it… due to ur previous experiences discussed about 100 pages back… and of course there are porna, stop being so black/white.</p>
<p>Earil, you’re not ugly. But you could be incredibly anti-sexy weird (being friends since 2nd grade qualifies you for this. Childhood friendship can sometimes be an anti-sexy thing). Or he could be gay (with guys, “bisexual” is pretty much the same as gay). And I will not type in complete sentences this night! </p>
<p>D-Yu: Exactly. Your lack of cleavage is sexy. But no, we can also look in “other areas” without appearing to do so if we’re not too close to you.</p>
<p><em>scribbles more in notepad</em> hmmm… ok, what would be more important to you, personality/talent(i.e. able to fix car) or looks/$$ and gadgets?</p>
<p>I am pretty darn sure he’s not gay. He was far too excited about his girlfriend getting out of ED rehab so he could make out with her this weekend to be into the man-flesh. So, I am totally anti-sexy weird. Shoot.</p>
<p>I think boys still win the checking out competition.</p>
<p>Elmo, it’s perceived social status, which is nice for boys, because it’s more of a combination of things for them. So they can be lacking in one thing but make up for it in another. Girls’ social status is more appearance based, traditionally. But then again, it varies from person to person, depending on what kind of social mold they want their significant other to fit into.</p>
<p>idk bout that… some of us have developed pretty finesse clandestine methods 
i.e. mirrored sunglasses…:p</p>
<p>Earil: I think your problem might be that you look too much like a kid (another anti-sexy qualification. Think of the weird anti-sexy factor as the dating version of the anti-hook). Some guys have issues with that (not consciously, though). TV tells me so.</p>
<p>D-Yu: Ha. Guys don’t realize that girls judge by looks at first exactly like guys do. The only difference is that girls actually come to appreciate the non-look parts of the package, whereas it’s questionable with guys. Personality is 2nd, but still very important (however, we don’t walk up to you and flirt for your personality. It’ll matter after the flirting, though). Talent and gadgets don’t mean anything unless the girl is using you for a purpose; I suppose talent would be 1 point higher than gadgets.</p>
<p>The king returns!
Obviously joking, but I’d love to be called king. That would kick butt. (:
I’ve made a boat load of cash today! I worked in my little nut stand from 1 until 7, and right as I was getting picked up by my dad, my neighbor calls me, all panicky, saying she needs me to watch her kids, so from 7 until about ten minutes ago, I babysat.
I haven’t seen my wonderful bed for over TEN HOURS! My feet hate my brains unexplainable attraction to money. Wait, it’s not “unexplainable,” money rocks!
How is everybody tonight?</p>
<p>I know. It’s unfortunate. I need to start hanging out with the future pedophiles, I guess. </p>
<p>Hey, Donny! We’re all lamenting about the opposite sex. It’s fun.</p>
<p>^^ haha. i took the SAT’s today don. just as grueling as ur day. </p>
<p>EDIT: gonna shower now, be back.</p>
<p>ShhshhshhSHH, Hudson! I’m excluding you tonight because you’re a guy, and therefore you don’t ask girls that you think are cute out because you’re a coward, and therefore you’re distantly related to the guy who didn’t ask me out tonight even though I’m informed he’s into me, and therefore you suck. Shh!</p>
<p>We’re discussing dating and why your kind is killing the idea of dating through cowardice.</p>
<p>…Because obviously it is against the law for girls to ask boys out, Porna. (:</p>
<p>The guy wasn’t cute enough for me to ask him out, and society hasn’t come to the point where a girl asking a guy out isn’t weird and awkward.</p>
<p>I know… It’s aggravating. I blame video games with half-decent graphics.</p>
<p>I’m in one of those weird “friend relationships” with two girls. With one of them, there is absolutely no attraction, like zero. She reminds me too much of my sister for anything to happen.
The other friend, however, is stunning. I use to have a giant crush on her before I knew her, but now, since I’ve gotten to know her, I don’t really feel an emotional connection to her. She’s still gorgeous however, and not in the curvaceous sense, you perverts(PORNA). She’s just…like…delicate?
Anyway, it’s weird, cause I’m pretty sure she likes me for all the heavy hints she’s dropped me, and I’m wondering if I should take the leap the next time she hints, even though I don’t feel earth-moving feelings for her, but I still love to hang out with her. I don’t know, maybe my expectations of love are too high. Maybe i am too much of a romantic, as was seen in our marriage debate.</p>
<p>See, Earil? Hudson’s #1 has the same reminds-me-of-a-kid anti-sexy factor.</p>
<p>Hudson: Yes, you should, you stupid member of your gender.</p>
<p>Think about her for ten seconds… Are you smiling? Does thinking about her make you feel happier than you felt before? The best you can hope for from a relationship is continued happiness. If it’s not there from the start, it’s not worth pursuing.</p>
<p>I have thought that this entire dramatic situation was all in my head. This girl is confused for being a twenty-something, college person a lot. Also, all the guys who have ever been close to her have been college guys. She claims they are more mature. Then again, she always tells me I’m the most interesting person she knows. What does this mean!?</p>
<p>It means she’s into you. Girls don’t say that to “friend” guys. They don’t. Ask her to go to the zoo with you tomorrow and let all the animals run free.</p>