If more folks could get along I wouldn’t worry so much about the future of our country every time I go to Gettysburg (which is way too often - was there today for example).
It’s one thing to disagree and debate reasons for different views, often acknowledging that not much is clear cut (though other things should be like being against racism and prejudice). It’s another to fight about it. Then it’s another thing to fight about it within families.
I wish everyone a peaceful set of Holidays.