The Nostalgia Thread

Hmm, lots of things, some of which as a parent I probably would pull my hair out (what I have left) over lol. Anyone remember creepy crawlers, which you made by pouring this goop into molds then putting them in this heat unit to bake? It was ‘reformulated’ because too many kids got burned with the unit (and I am not saying it should have been left on the market), but it was a lot of fun (and being a kid, the aspect of possibly getting hurt probably added to the fun…like I said, would be a thing I as a parent look at it and say “you have to be kidding me, who would let a kid have that” Later on, thanks to “Steal This Book” by Abbie Hoffman, discovering you could make one heck of a smoke bomb mixture out of caramelized sugar and saltpeter that could be tricky to make without getting hurt.

I think, too, I look at kids today and I am nostalgic for the life we had in other ways that they don’t have. There wasn’t the organized stuff for kids back then, our lives weren’t packaged the way kids are today, we didn’t have organized play dates, we didn’t have that many organized activities (little league was around, of course, and school sports and activities). While there was emphasis on getting good grades in school, we didn’t have the pressure that kids have today, even young ones, it saddens me when I hear kids in grade school and middle school who actually know their GPA…and in high school, you took AP classes if you were interested in them, you did activities and music because you wanted to, not because it would look good on a college resume. We had a lot of fun to ourselves, we had a lot more freedom to do things, sometimes not all that safe (there was an old dairy farm when I was a little kid, maybe 7 or 8, we used to ‘go exploring’ to get to, and we had things like shingle fights and climbed on the roof, not exactly totally safe things to do), we had pickup baseball and football games (including the mud bowls we all loved so much, playing in the rain), a lot of that, at least where I live, is gone.

Then again, nostalgia is nostalgia, and it isn’t always reality. As kids, looking back at when my parents grew up (they grew up in NYC, in the 1930’s aka the Great Depression), to us it seemed like they had a lot more freedom, parents thought nothing of my mother and friends going to the World’s fair in 1939 by themselves (my mom was 12) from the Bronx, or riding the subway downtown or wandering all over the city, to us kids in the burbs, where our world was limited by how far we could walk or ride our bikes, and where our parents didn’t give us the freedom they talked about, it seemed like a better time back then (the depression? My mom’s family was lucky, her dad worked for the Comptroller of Union Carbide, my dad’s father was a stone mason, on the other end of things in that troubled time).

Other things i am nostalgic for? When we had some money, going to the local convenience store we could ride our bikes to, and buying candy (jawbreakers, atomic fire balls) and those wonderful balsawood gliders and propeller planes were would fly until our arms hurt, and for the couple of days before we couldn’t glue or tape them any more, flew more then WWII combat pilots did:). My old train setup that I spent hours working on and playing with (and if I ever get my basement fixed up, which I have been working on for only 20 years or so, I’ll build a more elaborate one, if I can find the time…), having the time. As someone who grew up tinkering with cars, I also look back at a time when I had the time and cars were simple enough to work on (modern cars are a quandary for me; for me they are too complex for me to work on, but on the other hand, you don’t have to work on them too much because they are so complex:).

Tab, Jell-o 1-2-3, Charles Chips, buttermilk drops (yummy doughnuts by a long-closed bakery), cheap fresh Florida shrimp (lived near a shrimping/fishing village), hand churned peach ice cream made with peaches from my uncle’s orchard…it seems like most of my good memories involve food.

@musicprnt - I remember those creepy crawlers and burning my fingers when I didn’t wait for them to cool. I also had a vacu-form toy that made plastic vehicles from little sheets of plastic vacuum pressed over a hot metal plate. Boys who otherwise wouldn’t play with a girl made an exception when they saw those toys.

There was a great ferris wheel at the boardwalk of a neighboring beach town that I loved to ride. It’s long gone. In fact, most of the places I used to go as a kid/teen are gone - the miniature golf course, the huge slides that you rode on mats, the bumper cars near the ferris wheel, the skating rink, etc. When we took our kids back for a visit, there were very few places to go to do things if you didn’t belong to a private country club.

My favorite candy when I was a kid was Goetze’s Caramel Cremes. They’re still available and I buy them once in a blue moon. I also loved Turkish Taffies, especially the banana ones haven’t seen those in a long, long time. Oh and how about those little dot candies on a strip of paper?

Saturday morning tv - Sky King, My Friend Flicka, Fury. Playing Hide and Seek after dark in a neighbourhood full of kids.

Ok Marvin I’ll bite: what could your family have done to make this rant? Drug dealers? Slave traders? Triangle Shirt company? Manufacturers of…? and not paying minimum wage…owners of a mining company? Huge farms that hired bracero workers?

Since it is the Halloween season, I have been remembering the donuts my mom made to give out every year to trick or treaters. One year many kids came back multiple times and she ran out (she was prepared for 300). When my younger sister and I gave her all of our black licorice to start handing out, the other kids got the hint and stopped coming.

The thing I really miss is the ferry. I grew up on the Mississippi River and there was a ferry that went back and forth all day every summer. My younger sister and I both had paper routes, when we were in upper elementary and middle school, so we had money. We would get up early, ride the ferry back and forth all day every day, then stop at 3 pm to do our papers. We sometimes got off on the other side and got ice cream and wandered the state park, then came back on the next one. We sometimes walked and sometimes took our bikes. It was heaven. Mom knew we rode the ferry, she just recently found how just how much.

@bevhills - nah, just white middle-class people in America.

I can’t say any of those candy bars were my favorite, except for maybe Mary Jane’s, although I remember them all. I preferred (and still do) a chocolate nut combo sans caramel. I too think of my dentist - fillings and crowns when I look at the sticky candy and that’s enough of a turn off that I wouldn’t want to even try some of the old stuff. I have seen much of it when visiting the Vermont Country store.

Nostalgia-wise, I loved my easy bake oven even if the cakes did taste nothing like real cake. Actually, my Mom really liked the convenience items from the 60’s and 70’s - cake mixes and frosting, Spatini spaghetti sauce, canned vegetables, spam, cheez whiz, margarine. ugh. She worked most of my life but was still expected to clean, cook and take care of us so it must have seemed like the answer to a prayer to have those convenience items. It took me a while to purge that and learn to cook from scratch. Having the luxury of a flexible job when my kids were little made a huge difference too.

anybody remember a product called shake-a-pudding?
I am guessing from around 1970, just add cold milk to the powder, re-seal, and shake. It turned sort of solid and tasted awful. Commercial can be seen on utube

@kiddie @doschicos @VeryHappy - The memory of date nut bread with cream cheese sandwiches at Chock Full O’ Nuts coffee shops in NYC bring me way back…apparently, I’m not the only one:

http://www.politico.com/states/new-york/city-hall/story/2012/07/lost-foods-of-new-york-city-date-nut-bread-sandwiches-at-chock-full-o-nuts-067223

I remember the date nut bread with cream cheese!!! While I grew up in California I was born in Brooklyn. We had family in New York and when we were in Manhattan…those sandwiches and coffee (the best coffee even a millionaire can’t buy) were fantastic! We went to Nathan’s…

^Me, too @bevhills ! I have lived in California for 30+ years but grew up in NYC (Queens) and remember those date nut/cream cheese sandwiches very well. Yup, Nathan’s was the go to place for those. And Zabars…

Saddle shoes. Remember new shoes before school started?

@bevhills @SyrAlum - Maybe there’s a market for us ex-NYers living in CA for nostalgia foods. I only remember getting the sandwiches at Chock Full (a must whenever we went shopping at Macy’s and Gimbel’s on 34th St.)

@lovethebard:
Chock full of nuts was famous for those sandwiches, and others who had them were just mere pretenders! lol(plus the coffee there was first rate IMO).

Nostalgia is a funny thing. Someone mentioned amusement parks, one of my favorties was a place on Lake Hopatcong, NJ called Bertand’s Island. It had this marvelous, rickety roller coaster, and also even when I was a kid in the early 70’s as decrepit (seats patched with duct tape, the tracks looked like the wood had been replaced many times), and by the late 70’s when I was a teenager going there it was even more run down, but we loved it (half the fun of a roller coaster, especially a wood one, is they seem so rickety by design). More than a few of you actually may have seen it and not realize it, they shot scenes for the Woody Allen movie “Purple Rose of Cairo” there, just before it was turned down, to quote weird NJ magazine, for some more sorely needed overdevelopment…my other favorite coaster was at the long dead Rockaway playland in Queens, NY, it was called the Cinerama coaster, one of the roughest, bounciest rides you can imagine, but it was glorious, too.

For those into nostalgia, especially candy, check out the Vermont Country Store catalog/online, they have a ton of things we grew up with, from the weird to the wonderful (yep, they have Bonamo Turkish Taffee, don’t know if they have the banana flavored one though…).

@LoveTheBard - Gimbel’s! Yes, there’s a name from the past…And we probably passed each other at Chock Full as that was my mom’s go to place for lunch when we were in the 34th Street area.

@bevhills - where do you go in LA for those NY nostalgia foods? Any recommendations?

I do miss the fact that life was much less engineered for kids. In middle school/ early high school, we lived in a suburb of Los Angeles (“the Valley”) on the end of a private dead end road. There were a lot of kids our ages, and not a lot of supervision- typical of the late '60’s I think. We road mini-bikes and go carts in the streets and had sleep-overs frequently- especially in the summer when we went from swimming pool to swimming pool with out checking with parents. We walked barefoot on burning hot pavement across a 4-lane busy road (Sepulveda Blvd.) to the 7-Eleven. The older boys even built an underground fort in the empty lot which we could sometimes use. Terrifying when I think back and I would have killed my kids if they did something like that. I have to say it was an amazingly fun childhood and I wish my kids could have experienced some of that freedom, although they were much more supervised than I was. I don’t remember anyone getting seriously hurt but maybe we were just lucky.

@takeitallin We had an underground fort in the woods. Big hole dug in the ground and covered the top with sheets of plywood then dirt, leaves, and pine needles on top. Secret tunnel in. You wouldn’t know it was there if you weren’t aware of it.

We also had fun building awesome igloos and snow forts in the winter for epic snowball fights.

@doschicos- we are both lucky there were no cave-ins!!! Ours was quite large and sounds similar to yours. Pretty crazy!

OMG – Lake Hopatcong!! I spent a week at my grandparents’ in North Plainfield one summer when I was 11. I had a bunch of cousins that lived within walking distance around the corner. As a special treat, my grandparents took the whole bunch of us to an amusement park at Lake Hopatcong. I wasn’t a roller coaster fan, but we had a blast.

Haven’t thought about that in decades…

When I was growing up there was a hot dog restaurant on Little Santa Monica. It wasn’t bad. When Mr. Ellebud and I were young marrieds there was a Nathans in (oh heavens!) in Encino. We lived in the valley then. When I went to Beverly, many of us were the children of Chicagoans and New Yorkers. Is there a market for hot dogs? Probably not. Face it, how many of us eat hot dogs? Not many. Chock full of nuts? Maybe. There are a number of Nathans in Vegas. Not bad…but no chocolate egg creams. Barneys had a deli on their top floor. THEY had egg creams…50 cents each.