<p>lolo, I love love love the feather Mysa comforters at Ikea. You could check them out. I love that you pick a duvet to go around it, so you can change its appearance. They have the feather innards in various thicknesses and warmth ratings!</p>
<p>I told my BF I wanted a large fleece blanket for Christmas and he got me this huge blanket. It’s even bigger then my comforter. It’s perfect!</p>
<p>You can’t compare an Ipad to a kindle or nook…the kindle and nook really are for reading only,their ability to ‘surf the net’ is terrible…the Ipad is great for web usage and good for reading…if you are looking only for a ‘reader’ ,kindle and nook is for you…if you are looking to surf the net and read books/mags/newspapers, the iPad is your choice</p>
<p>I just got backfrom my dream vacation–taking classes at a quilters’ convention. I am drooling over a high end sewing machine with embroidery and/or a long arm quilting machine. But I don’t have to decide between them since I can’t afford either one–haha.</p>
<p>hmm…I’ve been debating between the Kindle and the Nook Color, since I am in the process of getting the new kitchen, the kids bought the KitchenAid stand mixer, I have an ipod and can’t afford the ipad :)</p>
<p>sewnsew, check your local dealer to see if they get any trade-ins. I got a Viking Designer One machine for 25% of original cost. Only had 10,000 stitches on it; the first owner had it for a couple weeks and decided she wanted an even higher-end model. I just started taking quilting classes at our local shop; I’ve been sewing for years and do fabric art, but want to learn the shortcuts and tricks. Had a blast!</p>
<p>What I want isn’t a thing, but a service. I would love to have a cleaning service for our house. I’d be happy with twice a month. And honestly I think it’s a “luxury” that many people in our income range enjoy. For whatever reason, my husband disagrees (probably because he doesn’t do much cleaning or see the dirt) and if my mother ever found out… she’d be so disappointed that I couldn’t take care of my house. Just one more way I’ve failed. </p>
<p>Maybe what I really need is thereapy, but I’ll settle for the cleaning woman.</p>
Girl if you are bringing in some of the household income, and you can afford a cleaning person, just go out and hire one. Stand up to your H and tell him it’s part of the cost of you working. As for your mother, you might mention that in the old days (even 40 years ago) lots of women had cleaning people. MIL had a woman who cleaned and ironed and did laundry. (She still has cleaning people.) It was a sign of the success of their husbands if they could fund household help. </p>
<p>Somehow now we get the ridiculous expectation that women will have career, kids, AND do all the household stuff at the same time, but believe me my female friends who are working high end jobs (Doctors, lawyers, psychologists, bank execs) don’t clean their own houses!</p>
<p>I just wish my ice dispenser worked on the stupid GE Monogram frig; I know 4-5 other people with the same refrigerator and the same problem with the faulty engineering. No sense paying $400 to repair it with a part that is cheap plastic and will just break again, but I miss the crushed ice.</p>
<p>tired already: get the cleaning help. You won’t regret it. Just tell H you can’t do it anymore. I have a high-energy college girl once a week who helps with cleaning and gardening and errands. I don’t know what I’d do without her. I am too old and decrepit to vacuum well and wash floors any more. I need to save my energy for all the other stuff I have to do.</p>