<p>When my stepdaughter got married last year, she and her fiance had a reception after the rehearsal. I was out of the loop in terms of planning so I was mortified when we arrived and all she was serving was lovely, but skimpy hor dourves. Many people had traveled to attend the wedding, so after going to the rehearsal they must have been starving by 7 PM. I know some people left early (some returned) and I am sure they were going somewhere to EAT.</p>
<p>Her actual wedding reception was wonderful - but I was embarrassed by the lack of food at the rehearsal. </p>
<p>OFF topic - sorry - but getting back to RSVP issue, she did have to call people to nail down numbers.</p>