I fear that some may be looking at death by one’s own actions as if this were some ultimate determininant of the value of one’s grievances or the reality of someone’s pain. Most of us have only the tiniest understanding of the reality of suicide for either the person who died or the bereaved who are left behind. People of all circumstances both consider and die by suicide. Lots of presumably cisgender people die by suicide, and we don’t use their deaths to justify the presumed absence of gender dysphoria or transition in their pain. Let’s not put the unknowable weight on suicidality on the experience of anyone—cis, trans, or unknown.