Much of the college experience for upper middle and upper class families is the residential aspect of college. Although that increases the costs over living at home, one is unlikely to have the same connections and closeness with one’s peers if one does not live on-campus/very nearby with students. If building a social network (aka, networking) is important to you, I would not recommend thinking about the commuter path, at least not at Santa Clara. If you want to do the commuter route, then I’d consider San Jose State instead.
Can you share what it is about Saint Louis that hasn’t been attractive for you? Personally, it seems to hold a lot of possibilities for what you say you’re interested in. If I were in your shoes, it would be getting serious consideration.
Like Santa Clara, it’s a Jesuit university (if that is something that attracted you to Santa Clara). It’s even larger than Santa Clara with a little over 10k undergrads, since you have the concern that Santa Clara might be too small for you.
The bio department page mentions various research opportunities including in faculty labs, the SLU medical labs, and sometimes sister universities (several options in Saint Louis!), as well students part-time jobs at Bayer or the Human Genome Project. SLU is so interested in research that it created The Research Institute to really build out this aspect of the university and the school touts
In 2002, Saint Louis University joined visionaries who predicted St. Louis could become a hub of bioscience and technology innovation, founding Cortex, an innovation community fueling scientific discovery, entrepreneurism and economic growth in the region.
The SLU Research Innovation Group turns SLU discoveries into startups that aim to cure deadly pulmonary fibrosis, alleviate pain without addiction, treat cancer, diagnose hepatitis C, and fuel airplanes more efficiently. (source)
Per that same source, at SLU there’s currently a research focus on addiction/opioids as well as on vaccines, all things that seem like they could be of interest for a student interested in med school.
And in the honors program, you’ll also do a senior capstone project, yet another possibility for research.
In looking at the bioethics major page (which I realize you did not indicate an interest in), it indicates that they have service-learning courses which take place in different healthcare settings. Being able to get school credit and assistance in coordinating these types of opportunities is great for someone thinking about med school, as it helps to get both time in healthcare settings and in service work at the same time.
Should you shift gears like @thumper1’s kid, there’s also a biomedical engineering degree here.
And because Saint Louis is a major city (with much less sprawl than in SoCal or the Bay Area), there are likely to be shorter distances/transportation times for shadowing, service opportunities, etc.
Between United and Southwest, there are 2-3 nonstop flights per day between Saint Louis and SFO, so travel need not be an insurmountable obstacle (and when the COA is $12k less than UC-Riverside, that’s a lot of trips every year). And that leaves money so no loans for the family and potentially extra money to help for grad school.