<p>But you wouldn’t want to be rude to that friend, would you?
Seriously though, I know what it feels like to want to write a letter. But it’s not a good idea. You could write it and not send it though?</p>
<p>Hahaha, trust me. Rejection sucks more. Deferral is like “Oh! You have potential! We want to wait to see what amazing things you do! You caught our eye, and you’re not obvious rejection material! Yippee!!”</p>
<p>Rejection is like “Oh, well, I mean, you were okay. But not really that good. Okay, now don’t bother us anymore!”</p>
<p>I like your attitude. It probably rings false coming from someone who wasn’t deferred/rejected in the EA round, but right before I looked at my MIT decision, I decided, that whatever it said (and since before I started my application, I expected to be rejected) I would be okay, and I wouldn’t hate MIT. I’d just understand that we weren’t a match, because I had said everything I wanted to say in the essays, and if MIT, or any school, didn’t want me after seeing them, we were probably both better off not being together. I hope I can reach that point before I look at every decision, because I have the distinct feeling that my luck will run out soon and very soon.</p>
<p>But I didn’t really say everything I needed to in my essays. Therein lies the problem. I think the rest of my application was fairly solid. Congrats on MIT, though. Wow. :)</p>
<p>I just reread my “Why Yale?” short answer and realized it is the most generic thing I’ve ever written [res colleges + shopping period, and that’s it…]. Even my answers for “Why __?” questions for other colleges were tons more unique than the one I wrote for yale. aww </p>
<p>I think that hanging out on this thread after SCEA apps were sent in made me fall in love with yale, haha.</p>
<p>I didn’t apply SCEA to Yale, but I did EA to UChicago and got deferred :(. My deferral letter is also sitting right above my desk, just like Stupefy’s and it sure as hell has motivated me :).</p>