What exactly is "slut shaming", and why is it so wrong??

[alh]

They totally expect to be part of a two-income household and compete with women for jobs and they expect to hold up their share of child raising and household responsibilities and just like the angry women, are simply looking for companionship in my opinion looking down upon my three twenty something males two of whom are** sadly women wary and I really hope I didn’t contribute to that.**

I think you are correct to be concerned and I would think you still have time to influence them to have a more positive response, if you choose to do so.

Since, like you, I only have sons, I really treasure my relationship with my daughter-in-law. And I hope you get to experience that.