<p>When I think “pathetically ugly”, I think of those people who are socially awkward and have some weird/gross habit and don’t know they have it. A sense of humor might fix it. On the Decathlon team, I thought this guy was hideous - he didn’t have a chin, his hair was like really short bangs, he stuttered all the time… but DAYM he was WITTY. He knocked my socks off. So now I think he’s pretty cool. </p>
<p>If you’re not funny, then I guess…what dignifies a person is the ability to stand up for him- or herself. Are you a doormat or something? Be more assertive. That’s attractive.</p>