That is really fantastic, jinglebells85. Your responses, both here and to your family, seem appropriate and wise. I like how you are reflecting deeply on what to involve your dad with, and what to skip with him – that sounds smart.
I am also pleased to hear of your interest in psychology, especially given some of your family dynamic. UW provides outstanding departments for both psychology and genetics, and there’s a rich and ongoing interrelationship between the two. There are some exciting, recent developments in what is called epigenetics (basically how environment can influence genetic traits and development), one of many research areas that may continue to evolve as you commence your studies. Congratulations~