And then without warning things can take a very dark turn… 
http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-parents/1785396-are-bs-parents-free-range-parents-or-coptering-out-sourcers-p1.html
The entire thread is awesome, but see post # 15 and then read Post # 20 to see what I mean. K2 finally had to grab my computer ( his first and last CC post ) to set the record straight.