<p>I’m not sure how much that would help. I am engaged and I still would not be willing to deal with co-ed sleepovers. I would be willing to allow private time during the day with SOME kind of notice (so I can at least get my books out first or whatever) but not at night when I want to sleep and not all the time, either. I did propose to my roommate last year that I would leave at least one weekend a month and whenever possible two weekends so that she could have the dorm to herself, so it’s not like I am totally unreasonable about it (in my opinion-- that gives her 6-8 days a month), but just because I have an SO myself doesn’t mean I would want to deal with any of this garbage. My roommate ended up being single most of the year and I really don’t think either of our lifestyles drastically interfered with the other.</p>
<p>I would think that girls with partners would specifically not be cool with this, given that then their boyfriends would have to be chill with her having sleepovers with other boys, but I suppose we are a touch more conservative than others. I don’t think my fiance would mind if I slept over with a large group that was co-ed but he’d be creeped out if there were just some guy in the room with me and the roommate-- and it really bothered me when one year he was living in a two bedroom, shared living room suite and his roommate’s girlfriend was essentially living with them and was there even when roommate was home for the weekend. I knew he wouldn’t do anything but it’s just not an appropriate situation to be in.</p>