white boy-asian girl relationships

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>Hahaha, all asian girls are great…I must have missed a dozen or so races in that list, on accident ;). </p>

<p>To Ilovetocamp,
Asians, for one, put too LITTLE emphasis on race nowadays. In comparison to blacks, indians, latin americans, and even multi-generationed europeans, we lack the security in our own habits and beliefs, in the conduct of our parents and family friends and relatives. I recall, as a wee toddler, I had some innate shame for my race, for bringing those damn cup-o-noodles to the ski lodge when everyone else was eating hamburgers and fries. Well guess what?? I eat those damn cup-o-noodles with pride nowadays cuz for one, they are also sweet nectar from heaven! </p>

<p>Asian girls appeal quite a bit to white guys for their domesticity and complacency. They are pretty (hell yea!) and supposedly easier to maintain and secure than white girls. One thing is missin! Respect! Hey a guy may wanna **** ya, but if he doesnt respect ya, the relationship won’t go anywhere farther than motel 6.</p>

<p>To Effulgent (nice vocab),
I was just using food as an example to supplement my argument. MMM food.</p>

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<p>troptriceps, so it sounds to me that if i don’t have pride, i’m ignorant? i don’t speak the language, but i know my family history and the issues overseas. in fact, i wrote 2 papers in high school about my family history. i’m proud of what my family has overcome, but i’m not proud to be asian. based on asians i’ve met and things i’ve learned from interviews, i’m not proud. maybe i’ll meet enough asians that’ll change my current conception of asians, and i’d be all for it. but at the moment, i can’t be proud of a heritage when i can’t find a reason to be proud.</p>

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<p>Well, I can disagree with you about Asian women being more… submissive. For one, this does not apply at all to my family.</p>

<p>But then again, weren’t the Vietnamese the one to oust China many ages ago because of their distasteful patriarchal order? If my memory serves me correctly, the Chinese were overthrown in Vietnam aided by SISTERS (the Trung, I think).</p>

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<p>I’m very proud to be Vietnamese. What gets on my nerves is when other Vietnamese people look down on you because you aren’t following “traditional standards.” Anyways concerning the other topic, I have no idea why white guys may be attracted to asian girls; however, I can tell you why I’m attracted to white guys. I think it has to do with being surrounded by white people growing up. Plus white guys are tall and I find that very attractive. I know alot of short asian boys, and also everytime I see a Viet guy I think of my brothers…I don’t know why but I just do.</p>

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<p>To CK,</p>

<p>Sure, there’s plenty of things to be shameful for. A ton of us nowadays are selfish, rude, boring, insecure, lazy, machine-like, etc etc. If you consign to removing yourself from this cultural niche and immersing yourself completely in american culture, there’s nothing left to work with. Why not, instead of alienating your people, seek out those asian acquaintainces with whom you can work with - admire, respect, collaborate? There’s obviously a lotta sh1t with our culture thats going down the sewers, but negligence and apathy towards it only catalyzes the adulteration.</p>

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<p>“We come from the land of the sexiness”</p>

<p>AHAHAHAHAHAHA TRICEPS you crack me up.</p>

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<p>Ok, just to play devil’s advocate, I’ve dated Vietnamese men that are tall (6’2) and my brother is (5’ 11), and this was years ago. Lately around this area, I noticed both Vietnamese male/female are very tall(6’2 for male, 5’9 for female). Now if tallness is a desire factor then look closely at the Asian race, you’d be very surprised how tall Vietnamese people have become. My own nephew is (6’2) while both parents are short.</p>

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<p>Eva Longoria is “sweet nectar from heaven”…</p>

<p>Anyway, NO GIRL is entirely submissive. Some may seem that way at first, but once you get to know them or worse, marry them, its a one-way ticket to hell. Asian girls=submissive??? Yeah right. they have got to be the bossiest creatures man put on Earth. Like my mom, and my friend’s mom, all yell at their husbands 24/7. Damn its annoying!!! My mom and my dad ahve a fight because my dad spends 10 hours at work and mom thinks he’s a workaholic and doesn’t want to spend time with the family. Also, I hear arguments repeated day after day on how my dad sets a “bad example” for us children.</p>

<p>Guys, life is hell no matter what girl you marry. Like if it’s an Asian girl, she will ***** at you and yell at you 24/7, but you won’t get a divorce because it is not the “Asian” way and because Asians can hold relationships through the toughest times(true fact). However, if you marry an American or a European woman, you will have fun for a month or so, get into an argument, get a divorce and that cycle continues on. </p>

<p>Pretty soon, everytime you get your annual salary, all you will have in your hand is some petty pocket cash after your income is distributed across multiple divorce settlememts, multiple home mortgages and insurances, appliance bills, taxes, money you need to spend getting a new car after one of your ex-wives vandalizes it, etc.</p>

<p>Married life sucks; it almost makes me look forward to doing my AP Chemistry homework that I procrastinated off tonight.</p>

<p>Maybe I’m just prejudiced to marriage right now but my plan in life is to “DATE, DATE, DATE, DATE ,DATE ,DATE, DIE.”</p>

<p>Thats how guys win the game of life.</p>

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<p>Holy cow! 6 ft for Vietnamese men! Dude…! :/// LOL UK=Heaven. xD! Good one Efflugent! xD I’m Asian-American. To me I thinking the hottest girls would be the LATINAS! XD W00t! :]]]]! Hottest guys=Russians and Britishs! :]]]] ^_^;;; [runs before someone try to yell at her]</p>

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<p>Yea latina girls are great…the exquisite feminine appeal doubled with some hardcore sensuality. </p>

<p>man<em>on</em>fire,</p>

<p>I feel you about the parental conflicts. Still, if a man is strong enough to put things in their place, unnecessary outbursts would be quelled. The dads of tomorrow simply need to be a little more assertive.</p>

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<p>:] Yay someone agrees with me. x]]].</p>

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<p>Do Russians count as Asians (like Anna Kournikova)?</p>

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<p>nope, russians are considered caucasions, and anna kornicova is butt ugly.</p>

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<p>but russia is a large part of asia</p>

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<p>it’s based on genetics and ancestry, not geographical location.</p>

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<p>If a black person lives in England, he is not English? Is he even European? Are people in Turkey Asian or European?</p>

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<p>^ there are two kinds of looking at whatever name you’re using, Asian, American, etc.</p>

<p>One is nationality. The black person is English in NATIONALITY, but African in origin and race. An asian in american can be American, but IS STILL A ASIAN.</p>

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<p>Hmmm I’m chinese and I find attractiveness equally among both asians and whites. But being exposed to a caucasian community and living in a neighborhood lacking any asian friend (well I have a friend whose half white half chinese but she has NO interest in asian boys AT ALL ^o^), I must say that this environment plays a role in making me having more white crushes than asian crushes in the past several years. But then, I don’t always look into what race they belong to, rather, I look at their hair first and foremost…^-^
I would like to add to what man<em>on</em>fire was talking about how NOT submissive asian girls are and I can’t help agreeing more!</p>

<p>I’m Chinese and I know so many other chinese families whose husbands are often yelled by their wives. The asian women I know whom, after married, tend to be very bossy and strict with their husbands. They are completely scared of their wives, thus men, in situation where they do something wrong, frequently have to kneel and beg their wives for forgiveness. Even when they don’t do anything wrong…Suffice it to say, married (most) asian women’s temper is really not something to mess with.</p>

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<p>tropical,</p>

<p>“Asians, for one, put too LITTLE emphasis on race nowadays. In comparison to blacks, indians, latin americans, and even multi-generationed europeans, we lack the security in our own habits and beliefs, in the conduct of our parents and family friends and relatives. I recall, as a wee toddler, I had some innate shame for my race, for bringing those damn cup-o-noodles to the ski lodge when everyone else was eating hamburgers and fries. Well guess what?? I eat those damn cup-o-noodles with pride nowadays cuz for one, they are also sweet nectar from heaven!” </p>

<p>how can you stereotype an entire race on a few examples, including your own personal experiences? ur painting with a VERY wide brush</p>

<p>and besides, as lotsa ppl already said here, people are people, it’s not like being a different race makes u totally different…</p>

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<p>anna kornicova is HAWT</p>