Why Are People Attracted To You MORE When You're Treating Them Bad

<p>Ok I’m not going to tell you the looonng story but I’ve had several people ‘hit on me in class’ or make forward (tying to appear seductive; yet are actually creepy) approaches.</p>

<p>Because I will never be attractive to anyone, form school xP I just ignore them and act as though it never happened.
However, for some reason that seems to induce them more into flirting with me (like if they think they can CHANGE my attractions); and it usually is provoked to the point in which I have to go speak with my parents (drives my dad nuts) or speak with the teacher (one time got a student suspended).</p>

<p>I’m not attractive and frankly consider myself muscular for a girl, although I have a slim waist.
And NO I respect my body and myself and carry my interactions with others proper >=)</p>

<p>there was a family guy episode on this</p>

<p>not sure if srs…</p>

<p>but if you are, you sound like an annoying *****. you got a student suspended for “flirting” with you? that’s sad that you can’t solve a “problem” like that without getting a teacher or your parents involved. solid social/ coping skills.</p>

<p>^ Lol. If she feels like someone is harassing her like that, then that doesn’t make her an “annoying *****”.</p>

<p>Not being able to deal with such a minor confrontation, “flirting,” sounds like a lack of social skills. That would make her an annoying *****, who everyone has to tip toe around so she doesn’t get upset and tell the teacher.</p>

<p>You have a vagina. As such, there will always be men trying to get inside your vagina. How you treat them is completely irrelevant as long as you continue reminding them that you have a vagina. What probably happens is that when you’re treating someone bad, they call you a “c*nt” in their head, thus reminding them that you do indeed have a vagina.</p>

<p>She can get them suspended if they’re harrassing her. No problem whatsoever with that, since honestly those kind of people wouldn’t stop anyways if she asked them to. </p>

<p>I would probably change the ignore strategy to telling your admirers straight up you’re not interested.</p>

<p>OMG you have a vagina! Well then I guess there’s only one choice here…</p>

<p>Knee the little b*stard in the nards.</p>

<p>I’m TROLLOLOLOLOLOLING at the OP.</p>

<p>People chase what they can’t have and get chased by what they don’t want.</p>

<p>Omg, I SOOO empathize with you. People are attracted to you, how could your life be any worse?</p>

<p>I can’t believe some of the responses to this. You CCers must be heartless! Imagine what this girl is going through!!</p>

<p>^^How does the first part make sense if OP thinks she is unattractive?</p>

<p>OP is probably a ■■■■■. I doubt anyone would register for CC in order to make a post like this.</p>

<p>She has made a couple of other posts.</p>