<p>I’m one person, with one opinion, but here it is.</p>
<p>My father is currently married to a white woman. He never married my mother though. She refused to take care of him, so he left and married someone who would. </p>
<p>I’ve been asked out multiple times. Almost none of them have been black, and the ones that did, as soon as they found out who I was (intelligent and unwilling to put up with their stupid crap), they bolted. So that’s that. I don’t care if what shade of pigment a man is. I hold them all by the same standards. No black guy on my level has ever give me that opportunity (and when I say that level, I mean academically and ambitiously. I’m the only black or one of 2 or 3 in every single one of my classes, and the others are female as well). 4 people in my school made National Achievement (I was one of them), 1 was a male, and gay. </p>
<p>In response to entertainer</p>
<p>1). A woman who has serious goals in life that don’t revolve around marriage probably isn’t going to be humble, because women can’t get ahead being humble. And neither do men for that matter. But especially women, and the black ones for certain, who are at the bottom of the social hierarchy chain. So now we are breeding a generation of Condoleeza Rice’s and Oprah’s, and Madeleine Albrights; women who at the end of the day will end up alone, because we live in a society that makes it almost impossible for women to get ahead with a family.</p>
<p>2). If black women are too dominate or have flaws in their paresonalities and are considered shallow, they can look to society for the answer for that. Most black women are A). supporting themselves and their children because black men aren’t stepping up (yes, stepping up and actually raising all the children they’re creating) and/or B). grew abrasive to keep from getting stomped on and rolled over by other people their whole lives and/or even C). Have spent their whole lives looking at media outlets for black people that make black women material items, most of these outlets being perpetuated by men. I was walking in the park one day with my mother and these three little girls, all black were nearby. they looked like they were 6 or 7. One was holding a camera while the other two were turned around squatting and one inquired “are you getting my butt in this?” And thus it begins. A new generation of shallow black women because that’s what they learn from music videos and dumb crap like that.</p>
<p>3). Seeing as you have written the psychology paper and all, maybe I’m being presumptuous here, but I wouldn’t blame it all on male dominance. I think white women are more willing to put up with a lot of crap that black ones won’t. In fact why not start a new conversation about why black women won’t marry black men? There’s plenty of material to discuss no doubt.</p>