<p>Just wondering I don’t mind people hang out as good friendship and I love it.
There are many people who make friends with many other people which I love them but
also ones who just stay in group don’t let anybody in or out.
Like certain group of girls that I don’t feel that they have any respect to others.
I do feel they are pretty and awesome but they just “”“” up and not care about anybody.
I personally make friends with some of them but I just don’t like the idea of people just stay in a group and just “”“” up in a group. Is it nature to do that? Does them make feel safe? Or am I just being jealousy that they are so pretty? btw I am a guy just saying they are pretty.</p>
<p>It’s called a clique. There’s nothing wrong with a group of friends of course, but what you seem to be describing is a group of damaged egos who need to fabricate a reason to feel superior to other people. There’s the illusion of the “special club” to these groups of people, so it’s almost “required” for them to exclude anyone who isn’t just like them.</p>
<p>I mean, if you are friends with some of these people I can’t exactly judge. For all I know, they could be decent people. There just isn’t enough info, but I would be aware of this personality flaw if I was you.</p>
<p>I suggest Emerson’s essay - [URL=<a href=“http://www.online-literature.com/poe/606/]“Friendship”[/URL">http://www.online-literature.com/poe/606/]"Friendship”[/URL</a>]. It answers all questions about friends/cliques/etc, and whether what you said is natural or not. It doesn’t take long to read either.</p>
<p>They identify with themselves and not others.</p>