<p>I think one thing that needs to be at least noted is that I have noticed way too many people-- both parents and their college-prospie daughters and sons-- often seem too timid and afraid about going far away for college.</p>
<p>It might not just be the “weather” that would pose issues with some students hesitating to move to a chillier place for college. Lying beneath that are all the other differences-- different location means different people-- as in, different mindsets, cultural attitudes and behavior, different political opinions or beliefs, different ways in upbringing among local students etc. It’s a giant change, certainly not geographical, but deeply cultural and behavioral.</p>
<p>I have heard stories of kids choosing to go across the country for their first year of college, only to transfer to a school far more closer to home later on-- not because of the actual difficulty of the curriculum or anything related to academics, but because of the cultural shock they experience. Sometimes kids just can’t adapt to being in such a new, far-away-from-home enviornment. It’s understandable, but if you’re a Boston kid who got into Berkeley but won’t go simply because you feel it’s way too far, that’s sort of sad. Or if you’re a kid from San Diego that got into Duke but you realize you feel that North Carolina is just too far away, that’s also sort of sad.</p>
<p>I’m not saying cultural/geographical differences are not extremely important to a student, or that a kid can’t thrive in a school close to home or anything. But there are plenty of lost opportunities created when people feel too timid to reach out and try living on their own for college, far from home. </p>
<p>It’s not just the weather, Zagat-- though of course you made a great point.
I think many people in general from different areas of the US are simply unsure of moving so far away, even for their college education. It’s a very hard decision to make, after all. </p>
<p>I live in the South, and I have seen this quite a lot. Many friends and classmates were accepted to great schools up North or out West (CA), but they declined to go because, in the end, they realized they didn’t feel comfortable leaving so far from home. </p>
<p>It’s not just the weather. There’s a lot going on behind those “weather” quabbles.</p>