Fair point. Forgive me, I’m new here. 
Definitely that’s true, and definitely a distinction I will probably be explaining to people around here.
I’m just trying to help her figure out where the best place is for her to spend the next 4 years. If it’s here, great. But if it isn’t (and I don’t think it is), then I’m going to do what I can to help her get where she wants and needs to go.