<p>You’re studying for AP exams. The person who you have feelings for calls you… or IMs you/etc…</p>
<p>And might find someone else if you don’t respond immediately.</p>
<p>What would you do? Give in and chat to that person? Or tell the person to wait until after the exams are over?</p>
<p>do you like her/him?</p>
<p>if you really, really, really like that person, chat for a while, ask to hook up after exams etc…</p>
<p>what if it’s merely a “how are you message”? in which the person could quickly lose interest in you afterwards.</p>
<p>Also I was meaning this thread to be a hypothetical situation for anyone. This isn’t my situation. 
It’s a “what would you do” thread</p>
<p>Umm if that person would be with someone else if I don’t respond immediately I’d see that as a lack of commitment and the potential for multiple partners/flings and thus I would be the one losing interest.
I’d use that reason as a tool to get myself to stop having feelings.
If that person actually meant anything he would understand my studying situation instead of bugging me to decide whether he should have a fling with me or some other girl.
That’s a BIG turn off.
Ew.</p>
<p>i don’t study for ap exams, so…</p>
<p>APs are definitely more important than someone you have a crush on. I would just tell them I’m busy and keep studying for the exams.</p>
<p>Well it depends, obvi. Is this like, the night before at 6? At 12? Or two weeks before? I mean, I would do it, at least for 15 minutes-at a break period. Then just explain you are “uber stressed”</p>
<p>Love conquers all, including AP exams.</p>
<p>yeah…love in the 10th or 11th grade… its possible i guess</p>
<p>^^ Yes it’s possible =]. But anywho, the person won’t find somebody else right away if you don’t respond IMMEDIATELY and if s(he) does, then they’re not worth it anyhow.</p>
<p>I think everyone knows what I would say about this LOL! Now the real question is: if you had to choose between studying and a friend’s kickass basketball tournament…I’d choose the latter anyday.</p>
<p>Gah, now THAT ones tough. Not really. BASKETBALL here I come!</p>
<p>Are you guys serious? I never have/will consider putting the rest of my life on hold for a test or anything school/college/work-related.</p>
<p>Love vs. dude my hormones are raging
Two different things.</p>
<p>I think that it’s difficult to say unless you really are in love the day before the exam. Then ummm…yeah. :p</p>
<p>It’s easy to say it when you aren’t in love now. ^^</p>
<p>Lol, I combined the two, sort of. I had my boyfriend quiz me all day today (test is tommorow.)</p>
<p>Just tell them you’re busy…As long as you’re considerate, the person should understand. If they don’t understand, they’re stupid! D: I’m a sophomore and all my Junior friends are busy, which sucks, but school ends in just five weeks so whatever.</p>
<p>Amen Psycho_Paroxysm. 99% of teenagers claim to find “love” 10000000 times over the course of 4 years. It gets uber hackneyed after a while.</p>
<p>Oh god…when I first saw the topic I was like…dang XD
I’m in the same situation except that it’s the other way around XD - the person has crush on ME
I would respond, then honestly say you have to study for this really important AP exam that’s coming up in like a week. That’s what I did.</p>