<p>Okay, so my name is Alex- I’m a girl, I’m a senior trying to chose a school, and I’m trying to decide between NYU (Atlantic) and The University of Evansville. Apples and Oranges. I see a lot of people trying to make similar decisions between the big expensive school and the small less-expensive school, however, in most cases they really want to go to the big expensive school but probably can’t because of money.</p>
<p>I’m the exact opposite of the spectrum. I have the option of NYU or UE, but I’m leaning towards UE, not because of money(Money it turns out is not a deciding factor. I’m paying my student loans either way and my parents will take the rest- their idea, not mine.) but because I want to.</p>
<p>I feel like some of you just gasped and wondered, “Who in their right mind would choose NYU over University of Evansville?”, and sometimes I wonder the exact same thing…I haven’t decided yet, because I still need to visit NYU next week, but I’m definitely leaning towards UE.</p>
<p>Okay, you think, that’s great. Her parents must be thrilled that their daughter really wants to go to the less expensive school.</p>
<p>That’s where you’re wrong. </p>
<p>I just had that “Let’s talk about our options of college” talk that I’m sure many of you had, and though my parents claim they weren’t pushing NYU(not intentionally at least), that’s what it sounded like. They were full of positive things to say about it, all of which I’m sure were true, but the only nice thing they said about Evansville is that it costs less, and now that’s not even a factor. They just kept emphasizing the connections and networking opportunities I’ll have in NYC and how casting directors can come see my shows, and I can usher for Broadway shows, and meet with Broadway managers, etc. etc. Then they asked me how being in Evansville, Indiana would be good, networking-wise, and I honestly don’t know. We went to see The Winter’s Tale at Evansville this past weekend (I thought it was wonderful) and my mother said she thought that my high school shows were just as good(my high school has a fantastic theatre program). The UE campus is a block. Just a block. My father has never visited and says he can’t understand why I want to go to this small small school in the middle of nowhere. (Note: My parents are science/math people, definitely not artsy types who are familiar with the theatre scene/top colleges/what makes a good production)</p>
<p>I realize that I am incredibly fortunate to be in this situation, but right now I would rather not be…I’m just not sure what to do at this point. The networking thing is their biggest argument, which I completely understand. My response to this is that I want to go to grad school after UE, which would open up a bunch more opportunities. If I was given the ultimatum Four Years and that’s it(no grad school), then i’d probably choose NYU.</p>
<p>Side Note: I’m not asking you to choose for me. I’m just not sure what to do at this point and if anyone has advice to put this all in perspecive, to help me out, or to tell my parents in terms of facts(PLEASE. They ask for info proving that Evansville is nationally ranked, but no such rankings exist except in the minds of others(YOU!). I’m not even sure how you would rank theatre schools anyways, in terms of what you would measure.)</p>
<p>Help?</p>
<p>-Alex</p>