There’s lots of these - but “good” location is subjective and I don’t think Rutgers has the monopoly on lots of jobs. Law school - again - where you go not relevant. That you got a 1570 so you’ll likely get a high LSAT - very relevant.
So I’m not saying it’s for you - but U of Alabama would cost you $20K all in because of automerit - they buy kids like you in and it’s why they are near 60% OOS including 2k kids from the tri state area, 1500 from Illinios, nearly 2000 from Texas and over 1000 from California. And from a volume POV, the most NMFs in the country (Tulsa has the highest percentage of overall class, by far it appears)
Getting to Rutgers or below isn’t an issue. Schools placing kids in law is not an issue - because as I showed you above, you could go to Montclair or Ramapo - and if you put forth the #s, you’ll be into a great law school. If you don’t go to law, getting jobs isn’t an issue - but that might be more major (and student) driven than school driven. Even a school like Cornell shows most the kids today getting jobs off applying on the Internet. Mine had 19 interviews and 5 offers by Xmas at the school I mentioned for $20K above. But he’s an engineer. If he was in Poli Sci - I’m guessing not a similar amount - but that’s at Harvard as well.
I think your mom has a lot of pre conceived notions - but I also think it’s you who will be on campus, not her.
Paying for Yale and paying for Rutgers are two different things. But you already covered that - so I understand and appreciate that.
But there are many schools who will merit you to a Rutgers cost, whether it’s a Bama which will kill it, a Florida State which will give you an OOS waiver, a Miami of Ohio which doesn’t tell you up front what you’ll get - but they are aggressive or a South Carolina or so many more.
And then there’s LACs - like DePauw, Kalamazoo with its open K curriculum, Rhodes, and many more.
From a merit POV, with your stats, the world is open for you - because schools want to attract students like you that will raise their overall profile - so Rutgers is great and that you love it is awesome. Penn State, as an example, isn’t great. It’s a great school - but it’s not a great school for matching Rutgers price. But there are many that will and will even beat - and they’re great schools - whether or not they’re great for you, is a different issue. But your mom’s concerns shouldn’t be a concern at one state school vs. another. Your abilities - both to test and seek employment (which includes taking advantage of the resources the schools offer you) because that’s where it’s going to come - that will matter no matter where you go. And I’m guessing you’ll be A OK here - we already know you are in the test portion.