Dressing Young 2025

I think I’m going to just wait until that evening and take a couple options. DH has great style and I often go to him for “these shoes or these?, these earrings or these?”

Also I’m not sure I’ll do a half up half down. I’m not liking how those 2 pieces seem so narrow with my shoulders bare.

LOL - When I can’t decide on shoes or earrings for an outfit, I ask hubby to pick . He has good taste. And heck, he will be looking at me more than other people will.

I think the soft gold shoes are a great neutral and snazzy!

I’m short and I know those nude shoes with the ankle strap are really popular, they make me feel shorter than I am. Never a good look.

At 5’7” it’s less of an issue…

It’s a stunning dress!

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The dress is beautiful and the subtle gold shoes seem like they would be a great compliment.

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So, the “soft gold” heels came in and they were bright gold. Uncomfortable and I don’t think dressy enough. I’ll stick with my knot shoes for now. Will just to stretch a bit.

It’s so hard to find what I want in a wide width.!





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Bummer! I have a contraption called Foot Fitter. I think it is $50 or so on Amazon. Bought it a while ago to stretch out a pair of boots that were a tad too narrow. Worked great! There is also the water in ziplock/freezer trick, but I don’t think it would work well with peep toe shoes.

I’ll look at that. I’ve used socks. I’ll heat up the inside of the shoe with a blow dryer then put on a pair of socks and walk around for about 5 minutes.

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These look not too shiny and come in wide!

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/the-orly-sandal-wide-widths-available/8555775

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I do know I don’t want an ankle strap but I love that style of sandal, so may just order it to have! Going to look if they have silver , too.

Thanks!

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I bought a dress from Bloomies deeeeeply discounted. :slight_smile: The dress arrived, it fits, and is really divine! The problem is that it is missing the self-fabric belt. I don’t want to call and complain because they will tell me to send it back, and it is sold out. So I need a belt. Can you please help me find one? TIA!

Here is a picture of the dress as shown on the product page

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It’s certainly worth at least calling and asking them to check with the store that shipped it to see if it made it to the store lost and found.

Otherwise, a light chiffon scarf might work, in a color blend since it’s unlikely you’d find an exact match.

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I think it would be hard to match the blue. What do you think of a belt like this with it?:

https://www.■■■■■■■■/listing/1435742787/skinny-womens-silver-belt-for-dresses-15?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=thin+silver+belt&ref=sr_gallery-1-26&pro=1&content_source=eac83008-8c0b-44ee-84aa-54b2436ac36b%253A9a8285dc5932e7539fb7541e42eed8508a4e355b&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=eac83008-8c0b-44ee-84aa-54b2436ac36b%3A9a8285dc5932e7539fb7541e42eed8508a4e355b

Or:

Or:
https://www.macys.com/shop/product/sam-edelman-womens-double-e-logo-chain-dress-belt?ID=16189079&pla_country=US&CAGPSPN=pla

Or:

Or:
https://www.amazon.com/JASGOOD-Fashion-Vintage-Interlock-Christmas/dp/B0BML4QDQX/ref=sr_1_21?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.SoRIfQRBaO3rfAFuRBOC4a8HJeP_belOVXDKLOESY7xx41mjQAyQfsAyagGa18z6k3W95yrVUNQpz6DmyuDJLTyfL3NMZr3JBtaKKv6nRnkyZ74CsPiQqIhU1qCi30Mjdail9kCTefrElqIEQ8_W2ezBMYI8uow-X9OyBZ1TgHmYtCT-spXliPnYfmV_lCbpT3ITk5ENepzilQnJvNe_s5VxZ9ogenEEJo4qLgGBtLpuJoAAGZpejW6XsTCN0cXL5DYpo0oaaMAlZZ7xAzMy7wQ5a94wvC2y5ePS-vFY9EM.HP0_4vrhj7DO7pCpmU9eKPCFi-Nt06n4D6_rv8zXuj8&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755567866&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-21&th=1&psc=1

Or:
https://www.amazon.com/Amabro-Elastic-Stretchy-Bow-Knot-Dresses/dp/B0CZ6VYMHS/ref=sr_1_22?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.SoRIfQRBaO3rfAFuRBOC4a8HJeP_belOVXDKLOESY7xx41mjQAyQfsAyagGa18z6k3W95yrVUNQpz6DmyuDJLTyfL3NMZr3JBtaKKv6nRnkyZ74CsPiQqIhU1qCi30Mjdail9kCTefrElqIEQ8_W2ezBMYI8uow-X9OyBZ1TgHmYtCT-spXliPnYfmV_lCbpT3ITk5ENepzilQnJvNe_s5VxZ9ogenEEJo4qLgGBtLpuJoAAGZpejW6XsTCN0cXL5DYpo0oaaMAlZZ7xAzMy7wQ5a94wvC2y5ePS-vFY9EM.HP0_4vrhj7DO7pCpmU9eKPCFi-Nt06n4D6_rv8zXuj8&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755567866&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-22&th=1

Or:
https://www.amazon.com/Suyi-Ladies-Chunky-Dresses-Silver/dp/B0DD3SQVHL/ref=sr_1_23?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.SoRIfQRBaO3rfAFuRBOC4a8HJeP_belOVXDKLOESY7xx41mjQAyQfsAyagGa18z6k3W95yrVUNQpz6DmyuDJLTyfL3NMZr3JBtaKKv6nRnkyZ74CsPiQqIhU1qCi30Mjdail9kCTefrElqIEQ8_W2ezBMYI8uow-X9OyBZ1TgHmYtCT-spXliPnYfmV_lCbpT3ITk5ENepzilQnJvNe_s5VxZ9ogenEEJo4qLgGBtLpuJoAAGZpejW6XsTCN0cXL5DYpo0oaaMAlZZ7xAzMy7wQ5a94wvC2y5ePS-vFY9EM.HP0_4vrhj7DO7pCpmU9eKPCFi-Nt06n4D6_rv8zXuj8&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755567866&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-23&th=1&psc=1

Or:
https://www.amazon.com/SANSTHS-Elastic-Buckle-Stretchy-Vintage/dp/B0C141XCS7/ref=sr_1_28?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.SoRIfQRBaO3rfAFuRBOC4a8HJeP_belOVXDKLOESY7xx41mjQAyQfsAyagGa18z6k3W95yrVUNQpz6DmyuDJLTyfL3NMZr3JBtaKKv6nRnkyZ74CsPiQqIhU1qCi30Mjdail9kCTefrElqIEQ8_W2ezBMYI8uow-X9OyBZ1TgHmYtCT-spXliPnYfmV_lCbpT3ITk5ENepzilQnJvNe_s5VxZ9ogenEEJo4qLgGBtLpuJoAAGZpejW6XsTCN0cXL5DYpo0oaaMAlZZ7xAzMy7wQ5a94wvC2y5ePS-vFY9EM.HP0_4vrhj7DO7pCpmU9eKPCFi-Nt06n4D6_rv8zXuj8&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755567866&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-28&th=1&psc=1

or:
https://www.amazon.com/Glamorstar-Elastic-Skinny-Stretchy-Dresses/dp/B0DK4MZLRK/ref=sr_1_38?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.LdSue7Z3h3m47zoHW_3nbH0orv29b8H2lWqIZAni6-1hG-b8_2oSf2VVmLe4-sAD01olJqW368yd9HS5i0wop23iaY74VAetXfr0B4caYaSGQfK0OkrJTgh9yx_jEp7IGLS4LWR_nocBMVlL3cZS92zUt-1r6UHbo08WEqOxCDyARRL3WGKEi7CfUkII6NYHdTrJnNAVtyAMWqPFFdAbNIJokIJ0LkDvo5TNBbBmWRXYWeU3i-dFx97Oo4ehWyPc2EgR81bbv9MHhKClRsaISZO7SqPlcxGWXIpdL7kr42A.QCb69333TJtscPY5z6YCa0H0ahDkyQonCABqGOx60YY&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755568106&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-38&th=1&psc=1

Or:
https://www.amazon.com/GEEHUA-Stretch-Elastic-Dresses-Waistband/dp/B0F1D3R6MD/ref=sr_1_108?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.91x2feU5DSad6IEpzOJJR93LD0VxRs6aDyPlpYlfWmGbC3bt7VKvZlTJ89XFRDBW2J2IFku1b16GlbEbTEo4VjCqJyeEM13wd0BkN2CB19nC8T22_enp_cr6q7h7CeKEObyH8Kb1kaJ9fy_BeVrCbLDhY9SP00kGllfO7pQWmw_1O63FjSU32nCYOUBLdeKBV8_Hhy8ntEvI5JuHT_7xw8qibxNmwfHicqyTMFRuKTi-7YxWz2WpvvW2JYMX50xhCX5XX9ZMTSL6Bfp615z_leSilR3ioeKaEetCm5hcTyg.-WnvXwRnWvS_CPHQZzT1CvbnwJuz61ZbDiZWohqNc-U&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755568300&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-108&xpid=75nMyodzn2e-9&th=1

or:
https://www.amazon.com/LEACOOLKEY-Skinny-Leather-Ladies-Dresses/dp/B0D1C26SB8/ref=sr_1_116?crid=2XV5Y5IWXMOAP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.91x2feU5DSad6IEpzOJJR93LD0VxRs6aDyPlpYlfWmGbC3bt7VKvZlTJ89XFRDBW2J2IFku1b16GlbEbTEo4VjCqJyeEM13wd0BkN2CB19nC8T22_enp_cr6q7h7CeKEObyH8Kb1kaJ9fy_BeVrCbLDhY9SP00kGllfO7pQWmw_1O63FjSU32nCYOUBLdeKBV8_Hhy8ntEvI5JuHT_7xw8qibxNmwfHicqyTMFRuKTi-7YxWz2WpvvW2JYMX50xhCX5XX9ZMTSL6Bfp615z_leSilR3ioeKaEetCm5hcTyg.-WnvXwRnWvS_CPHQZzT1CvbnwJuz61ZbDiZWohqNc-U&dib_tag=se&keywords=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt&qid=1755568300&sprefix=women's%2Bsilver%2Bwaist%2Bbelt%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-116&xpid=75nMyodzn2e-9&th=1&psc=1

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Thank you! And thank you @Marilyn too! I was thinking a Chanel chain belt dupe might be a good choice. Some of these in @soozievt post look great.

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Like this one… at a 100/th of the price. Lol!

https://www.therealreal.com/products/women/accessories/belts/chanel-interlocking-cc-logo-skinny-chain-link-belt-qzcxa

If you want a chain belt, what about:

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/us/chain-belt-in-silver-metal/

https://www.amazon.com/Women-Metal-Chain-Ladies-Waist/dp/B099DZTTNJ/ref=sr_1_20?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0v_SSkcwcyg3EpE7LD_SOSEh4tsp7WKV80rzTObnQZHXmZaPTlb0hb4Jb6U4XbwZs_laYG_t2eUTmzDrtSFJAthPZnWyTlkxgeJj2EAqJSyZX6WHYdBuhVV04-XxgWruxIdr99qzaMSQqf6dnMcTGHa0YP-M6F3Vx7PS-1ZRN71xl72K2xpdDQhVFC43YjAtoUSi14_RiEcGV_88S-seZPUmInTIRY8A3w0mt8hWhwAp6zDKYrwsrXZCPQcGALhhrjL-t-TqjlA1u3eCHVYgUblxDHGOTpCkapna1wnF-2E.DkJp7vvfI5qme8CS6zll4u1XQjWEq_qWzbA5_tbbTEQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=chanel%2Bchain%2Bbelt&qid=1755569131&sr=8-20&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/Calvin-Klein-Womens-Hanging-X-Large/dp/B0C4LWTPDY/ref=sr_1_24?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0v_SSkcwcyg3EpE7LD_SOSEh4tsp7WKV80rzTObnQZHXmZaPTlb0hb4Jb6U4XbwZs_laYG_t2eUTmzDrtSFJAthPZnWyTlkxgeJj2EAqJSyZX6WHYdBuhVV04-XxgWruxIdr99qzaMSQqf6dnMcTGHa0YP-M6F3Vx7PS-1ZRN71xl72K2xpdDQhVFC43YjAtoUSi14_RiEcGV_88S-seZPUmInTIRY8A3w0mt8hWhwAp6zDKYrwsrXZCPQcGALhhrjL-t-TqjlA1u3eCHVYgUblxDHGOTpCkapna1wnF-2E.DkJp7vvfI5qme8CS6zll4u1XQjWEq_qWzbA5_tbbTEQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=chanel%2Bchain%2Bbelt&qid=1755569131&sr=8-24&th=1&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/Steve-Madden-Womens-Dreaming-Silver/dp/B0D68MBHQH/ref=sr_1_39?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0v_SSkcwcyg3EpE7LD_SOSEh4tsp7WKV80rzTObnQZHXmZaPTlb0hb4Jb6U4XbwZs_laYG_t2eUTmzDrtSFJAthPZnWyTlkxgeJj2EAqJSyZX6WHYdBuhVV04-XxgWruxIdr99qzaMSQqf6dnMcTGHa0YP-M6F3Vx7PS-1ZRN71xl72K2xpdDQhVFC43YjAtoUSi14_RiEcGV_88S-seZPUmInTIRY8A3w0mt8hWhwAp6zDKYrwsrXZCPQcGALhhrjL-t-TqjlA1u3eCHVYgUblxDHGOTpCkapna1wnF-2E.DkJp7vvfI5qme8CS6zll4u1XQjWEq_qWzbA5_tbbTEQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=chanel%2Bchain%2Bbelt&qid=1755569131&sr=8-39&th=1&psc=1

https://www.therealreal.com/products/women/accessories/belts/st-john-metal-chain-link-accents-waist-belt-qej1v?utm_source=googleperformancemax&utm_medium=paidshopping&utm_campaign=Google_Shopping_Demand_Existing_Other_Accessories&utm_adgroup=&utm_content=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21670753678&gbraid=0AAAAADh84nM6-rkIhnSm05--o6xlrrjm6&gclid=Cj0KCQjwnovFBhDnARIsAO4V7mA4QhG4LlikGIM2gKPXq7WjxMtl4WRN8cHEDjE1BeCK0wdVPnrB2NsaAni4EALw_wcB

https://www.amazon.com/HIQUACC-Womens-Chunky-Jewelry-Gold-XL/dp/B0CBFHKVNW/ref=sr_1_44?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0v_SSkcwcyg3EpE7LD_SOUBzGgBqRADyuNTjCYKHekyr73pwdkRc5XuJ5YXKnH79CggxkAupWYIuuF8Gq49645LTU7iQQeeuTKUho4rOypvkDKfpLMej62F6TXU_AeHYZPcXetuThazAhz4umSp0FNEGn-so8OjIEsstX94NSa50Se334qp7KkwvdqJbilZgwlFepM_EUF4iHJ52riu_bbhY4lYLcii6Fmh99o_ovwL-1xIggBMXGU4tKqt7x85xk0Z4n_LLpMru1NrMm_c0qLlxDHGOTpCkapna1wnF-2E.oU8t3mc4F_aFg_3q4KzKpyYGX-9whzsLRYwmfm7vaII&dib_tag=se&keywords=chanel%2Bchain%2Bbelt&qid=1755569393&sr=8-44&th=1&psc=1

https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/frame-womens-open-link-chain-belt?ID=5550727&CategoryID=2910

This one: click on silver…
https://www.macys.com/shop/product/i.n.c.-international-concepts-metal-chain-belt-created-for-macys?ID=5711182&swatchColor=Gold

https://www.macys.com/shop/product/steve-madden-womens-two-tone-paperclip-chain-belt?ID=17715421

I like the chain belt idea. I have tried light scraves in situations like this, and I can never get them to let the fabric drape as it might have with something narrower. One of those ideas that’s great in concrpt but seemingly unexecutable.

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I travelled with short casual sleeveless dress (also light blue) with matching fabric belt just like that. I was worried about loosing it (especially after it got temporarily misplaced). Luckily it had buttoned chest plackets, which allowed me to thread the belt to stow for packing.

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Are you happy with the length of the dress as it is? Wondering if you shortened it if someone could make a belt from the cut off fabric? Depending, obviously on how much was cut off, the style of belt, etc

Just a random thought

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Not a bad thought!

Fortunately or not, I like the length. Full maxi. :slight_smile:

I ordered some cheapo belts from Amazon. Eyeing a more expensive one on RealReal (but not the Chanel one lol - that $$ is crazy).

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I think a chain belt will look great. My only concern is it could potentially pick/snag the fabric. But, I can’t tell what type of fabric it is to know how likely that might be.

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