<p>I’m looking for cute ways to ask a guy to a dance. We don’t have the “sadies” dance until february but it’s nice to have ideas ahead of time :)</p>
<p>“Hey, go to the dance with me”.</p>
<p>XD j/k.</p>
<p>There was a girl at my school one time who bought this humongous cookie and wrote the invitation in frosting on it and gave it to the guy, it was so cute.</p>
<p>Walk up to the guy. Go, “Hey. Got a date for the dance?”</p>
<p>If the answer is yes, ask who, and act all interested so you don’t feel embarrassed. </p>
<p>If the answer is no, say, “Wanna go with me?”</p>
<p>hm, say i loved you from the moment i layed eyes on you, baby,!</p>
<p>Here’s how a girl asked me to a dance (given, it’s a little complicated, but I loved it!):</p>
<p>She decided to make a Candy Land theme. She figured out my schedule, and then gave every teacher in that class something to give me.</p>
<p>Each class would have one character from Candy Land (you know, the little cards…) and a clue as to who was asking me to the dance, along with candy that fit with the character (ie: Gumdrops with the gumdrop guy, licorice with the licorice guy, etc, etc.)</p>
<p>She had the last class of the day with me and that’s actually when she officially asked. Not only did I love everything about the way she asked me, but I also said yes!</p>
<p>Now, this kind of only worked because she gets really enthusiastic about this kind of thing, she was only in my last period class, and I happen to absolutely love candy (and had told her about my adoration before). However, if you’re reasonably sure he’ll say yes, go all out and do something big and cute like this–he’ll love the effort you put into it and feel honored (if he’s a nice guy…).</p>
<p>So yeah.</p>
<p>Oh, by the way, someone else asked me the year before. On a calculator. Please don’t do that. It was sad. If you aren’t going to do something really big, at least ask him to his face (not through a calculator or through friends, etc.)</p>
<p>Im sorry to say this, but girls shouldn’t do the asking. Seems desperate.</p>
<p>I’m glad you’re sorry. You should be sorry. What about asking a guy out seems ‘desperate’ to you? The fact that we’re not sitting around waiting for Prince Charming to come knock on our doors? Please.</p>
<p>Hahaha… I love the Candy Land themed invitation… :)</p>
<p>My date to prom asked me in a really awkward way. It was (kind of) in letter form, so he put all of the pressure on me to approach him and say yes (because he was too scared to ask me directly). My friends tell me that the way he asked me was cute, and I’ll be able to appreciate it someday (like when I don’t have an enormous bias against my date…). I’m still annoyed by it to this day.</p>
<p>My point is… if you do ask him in a creative way, ask him in PERSON. Leaving a letter/note/something else when you’re not there puts him in a really awkward position. I know from experience.</p>
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<p>Geez it wasn’t to get you all heated up or anything. I simply meant that in my opinion, girls should never ask a guy out. Seems super desperate. C’mon, if you’re really pretty, you have like 5 guys after you talking about you saying: “Yah… I will ask her out next Tuesday…” or something like that. If no one asks you and instead you are the one who asks some guy out, the guys are going to be saying: “Omg. You heard **** asked Michael out??? Yah I know!!! Apparently no one asked her…”</p>
<p>So it looks bad. It’s not that it’s bad in itself, but it definetely looks bad.</p>
<p>…it doesn’t look bad at all. In fact, most of my guy friends have said that they like it when girls ask them out… they like self-confidence.</p>
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…except that doesn’t actually happen.</p>
<p>…sadie’s is a girl-ask-guy dance.</p>
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<p>Oh! No wonder!!! In that case, no, sorry, but I don’t have any ideas. </p>
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<p>lol!!! It seems so funny now.</p>
<p>Even though going all out is tried and true (kind of?), you really don’t have to do much, I mean some guys probably wouldn’t want that anyway. Just say “So what are your plans for the sadie hawkins dance?” if he doesn’t have any say “Well do you want to go with me, I think it could be fun?”. Cool and casual lol.</p>
<p>Think of something cool and original, that’s personal. For example, if your guy’s into music or something, maybe make him cd? </p>
<p>No matter how you ask, make sure you’re decently sure he’s single and he’s at least sort of interested in you, so you don’t have to deal with rejection</p>
<p>Not that rejection is a big deal, remember that you can always ask someone else!</p>
<p>“hi.”
“hi.”
“are you going to the sadie hawkin’s dance?”
“yeah.”
“… well ya wanna go with me?”
“okay.”</p>
<p>simple as that. if you get rejected, just SLIT YOUR WRISTS and the pain will go away!!</p>
<p>hey you can always do it the simple way. that’s how i did it and i’m a girl. :)</p>
<p>Yes…turning emo is the best alternative.</p>
<p>Hahaha… well, the normal way is fine. Just check that he’s single.</p>
<p>The wxmann’s method of asking someone to a dance.</p>
<p>1) “Accidently” drop a book on her feet. Apologize gently and move on.
2) Bump into her the next day “accidently”. Ask “have I met you before?” She’ll either say yes or no.
3) Regardless of the answer, apologize again. BUT…</p>
<p>if she said yes, she’s noticed you. That’s good. The next day, go ahead and Pop the Question. Mention the two instances beforehand, and apologize again. Be kind and gentle throughout. Girls like that.</p>
<p>if she said no, she hasn’t noticed you. She’s too busy fantasizing about other guys. Move on.</p>
<p>Keys:
- be soft and gentle
- don’t SMASH into her. Again, it’s accidental, but not suppose to cause significant injury and/or death.
- don’t show that you’re into her.</p>
<p>Of course, I have never asked anyone, so don’t know if this’ll work. But it’s worth a try.</p>