<p>agree we need to let nature take its course…sometimes they do make these choices on their own</p>
<p>my just graduated senior, has been in a long distance relationship her whole senior year. Her bf wanted for the two of them to go to the same college. my d recognized that she needed to make her choice based on the best fit for her, and happily she did. She is now saying she doesn’t think she wants a long distance relationship as she starts college, as she sees she’d miss out on the connections she’d otherwise make. I was so impressed when she told me how she’s so glad they’ve had each other bc taught her about love, and how wonderful it is to be in love…but that she’d like to start college without a relationship</p>