<p>As a student, I agree that you should let this run its course. As others have said, most of the time the relationship will end naturally. </p>
<p>On the upside, I can also tell you it’s possible to have such a relationship and NOT miss out. I have on friend in a similar situation, whose relationship has made it this far (end of junior year), and he, at least isn’t missing out. About once a month or month and a half he’s gone for a day or two on the weekend; sometimes his girlfriend is here. But he’s still super-involved with academics and research and tutoring, and he has a strong social life. </p>
<p>Does he occasionally miss a fun night or a good play because he’s at her school? Sure. But no one can do everything at a college, anyway, and I’m sure there are things he gets to do at her campus that he wouldn’t at ours.</p>