How to say "I don't love you anymore"

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, but we’re getting closer again. I feel somewhat terrible because he thinks something might be happening (just a feeling), but the truth is that I’m not in love with him anymore, nor do I love him even. He knows that I’ve stopped dating, and I think he takes this as a sign that I want to get back together with him, but the real reason is that I don’t want to create any new relationships before college. I hope I’m wrong in how I’m reading him but in the event that he asks me out again, I want to be able to say “I don’t love you anymore” without seriously hurting his feelings. Is there a mild way of communicating that message?</p>

<p>Thanks.</p>

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<p>Maybe tell him the truth…that you’re going off to college and a relationship is not going to work out.</p>

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<p>Maybe you should say you don’t want to be hurt again by breaking up a second time before college.</p>

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<p>Just tell him you don’t want a relationship before college.</p>

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<p>I don’t love you anymore.</p>

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<p>just let him down easy. Tell him not to get the wrong idea by what happened and that you don’t think that a relationship before college is in your, or his, best interest.</p>

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<p>Comment that to him on myspace or facebook.</p>

<p>Or better yet, just text him.</p>

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<p>maybe it would be better in person. a message seems kinda insensitive</p>

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<p>I don’t love you anymore.
That’s pretty much the only way.</p>

<p>PS love in high school … oh, please!</p>

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<p>what is wrong with love in high school? Maybe if you gave it a different name it wouldn’t be so “oh, please!” like…infatuation for example.</p>

<p>Tell him: I am not infatuated by you any more.</p>

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<p>How do you say “I don’t love you anymore?” Well it shouldn’t be that hard unless you have a speech impediment. haha.</p>

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<p>Say: _______, I love you so much, but I’m not in love with you anymore.
… ^insert name here</p>

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<p>there is no diff between the two, love and in love r the same</p>

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<p>“Technically” that may be so. ^
But saying that you love your mother is different from saying that you’re in love with your mother.</p>

<p>Do you follow?</p>

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<p>Um definitely not true. I love my parents. I love my friends. I’m not in love with them.</p>

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<p>Tell him to get a CC username and refer him to this thread.</p>

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<p>I would just freakin’ blurt it out and then apologize for ever thinking that I loved the person in the first place. True love doesn’t die, and love is such an overused word that I even find a mule’s butt more attractive than a stupid naive couple.</p>

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<p>kafka 89, i see your point now
(and did you have to prove your point like that? couldn’t you say “in love with your sister” why mother…that’s just gross, and so is my example, bot not as gross as yours)so just leave the Edipus coplex out of this thread. </p>

<p>oh, and psycho paroxysm,
you make a very interesting comparison. A mule’s a$$ may be more attractive, but have you ever had your head in one?? just kidding…I saw that in a movie last night. Gross!!</p>

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<p>“***** off, I hate you.”</p>

<p>“I don’t love you anymore.”</p>

<p>“I’m seeing someone else.”</p>

<p>Take your pick.</p>

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<p>Do nothing. That never hurt anyone O_O</p>