<p>all my female friends want to make out with my goodlooking male friend… none with me, obviously…they are all like: “he’s so hot! i want him!”</p>
<p>same thing with goodlooking girls, they always get more attention. shamefully, i myself treat beautiful girls more nicely…i dont know why, they are so cute…that cuteness makes me wanna treat them well.</p>
<p>what can make up for bad looks? money? status? funniness?</p>
<p>Maturity. As you get older, (most) people will start to look a little deeper and realize that looks aren’t everything. I’d take an intelligent person who makes me laugh over some one who is drop dead gorgeous any day.</p>
<p>Although it helps to be hot and smart :)</p>
<p>Just kidding… I’m neither. :(</p>
<p>Yeah. I’m hoping by the time I’m 50 at least one person will have shown some interest in me. Hopefully people mature one day :p</p>
<p>really? i love good looking people… so nice to look at lol</p>
<p>then get a new face. </p>
<p>kidding, i’m not that mean. confidence, work out, and be funny. Even if you don’t work out till you become a hot stud, at least you’ll feel good cuz you’re muscles are getting pumped. and feeling good on the inside will make you feel better about yourself and your outside (hopefully)./
and i’ve seen a lot of pretty girls with not so good looking lads but the boys will make you laugh till your pants fall off, which is probably how they landed the girl.</p>
<p>funny guys get the girls but you have to be naturally hillarious so u might be out of that one… confidence works but one girl can destroy all of the confidence that you’ve built up all your life (experience)… one of my best friends who’s rich and kind of funny gets a fair amount of action. It also might help that he’s a varsity starter on a state champ. baseball team and all his friends are star athletes. </p>
<p>But dont get hung up on looks too much. I’ve kinda noticed lately that I’m starting to care less about looks and more about personality (although the looks is what usually gets me to talk to them enough to learn their personality).</p>
<p>the funny thing is soooooo very very true.</p>
<p>at least you don’t go to a school where the attractive girl to boy ratio is like 20:1. seriously.<br>
(i’m a girl)</p>
<p>It is definitely all about confidence. If you’re confident then being funny will come more naturally (at least somewhat). But like it was said somewhere earlier… you’ve either got it or you don’t. Just don’t worry about it, because worrying about it gets you in this predicament in the first place. You sound like my best friend when it comes to pretty girls, he throws down everything for them. Girls really hate that (the normal ones at least hah), so he’s stuck carrying a girl’s books around while she talks about the guy he likes. Try not to put yourself in that situation… it’s bad. Look girls play hard to get, and so should you (although it’s much harder for guys due to ermmm certain hormones). It all comes back to confidence. Once you get her, you have to maintain that confidence, too. I’ve lost many girls that way… And I believe there’s a difference between confidence and ego, a girl can easily burst that ego, but if you have true confidence, you can take it all in stride. And don’t worry, even the best of us lose confidence around that certain girl. It’s just something that happens, but that’s life.</p>
<p>I have this really attractive friend who thinks that all boys are just really nice people. My other friends and I have been trying to tell her for almost two years now that a big part of the reason boys are so friendly to her is because of the way she looks. It’s true. The OP isn’t the first boy I’ve heard admit he does this. I’m jealous of attractive people too, especially attractive women, because there are more rigid beauty standards for women than men.</p>
<p>its never just looks though so chill out about it. You can make up for 99% of physical looks just by being a cool person and fun to hang out with. Some of the most popular kids i know are not very physically attractive. For both guys and girls people will perceive you better physically if you have a better personality.</p>
<p>I love being good looking. It does give you an unfair advantage, but hey, it’s cool.</p>
<p>My problem is staying in a relationship for a long time. So many girls have just wanted who knows what and then left me.</p>
<p>Yeah godfather, and guys are supposed to be the a**holes, funny huh?</p>
<p>Is that coming from a male or female?</p>
<p>Seriously it will be going strong for a month at the most, and then it will just stop.</p>
<p>male all the way haha. That time frame is exactly the same for me. Weird.</p>
<p>Dude they all say I’m a good kisser, smart guy, all that crap. But somehow they don’t want to stay with me.</p>
<p>And they never say bad things after it’s over.</p>
<p>would you rather be beautiful or date someone who is beautiful?</p>
<p>I have a beautiful daughter. She never goes for the good looking guys.</p>
<p>I know exactly what you mean. It’s like everything is fine, and then bam they hit you with the friends line. I guess we’re the guys that girls crush over, but not like in a deeply emotional way (although I wouldn’t expect much of that from high school girls).</p>
<p>I pick both.</p>
<p>If I could marry someone beautiful but be ugly, then that would be fine I guess.</p>
<p>twistedsis, don’t worry about that most beautiful guys are shallow and conceited. Like me for example haha.</p>