<p>And then there’s me. Deep, and modest, and red hot. Did I mention I owned the gifted and talented test for my district. Highest score ever in math.</p>
<p>Yeah don’t be cocky either. <em>coughs</em></p>
<p>Definitely modest. haha.</p>
<p>I don’t think of myself as cocky. I keep my unbelievably awesome appearance to myself.</p>
<p>"I love being good looking. It does give you an unfair advantage, but hey, it’s cool.</p>
<p>My problem is staying in a relationship for a long time. So many girls have just wanted who knows what and then left me."</p>
<p>I kinda have the same problem but different. For me its like or the first month im the most amazing b/f ever and then i just get bored w/ the relationship and im just like whatever. I think part of the problem is that i go for the party girls when i know deep down i love the girls who go out but are also kind of good. Problem is that b/c of my rep. those girls take a while to warm up to me and by the time they actually like me i’ve already started talking to another girl… basically i have relationship ADD</p>
<p>dude that’s like the best way to put it. that’s awesome… relationship ADD</p>
<p>lol… yea i thought it was pretty nice myself</p>
<p>Don’t worry, person who started the thread, unless you’re a girl.</p>
<p>There is a HUGE pressure on girls to be “pretty”, even from other girls. There’s a REASON that girls go on diets, wear makeup, and get more plastic surgery than men, and it’s not because we’re innately vain. It’s because society, especially American society, basically sends the message that unless a girl is hot, “sweet”, and not braindead, she’s not worth anything.</p>
<p>CCers even admitted on the thread about nerdy girls that guys don’t care about intelligence as long as a girl is pretty and has a decent personality. It’s unfortunate but true … girls who don’t have a pretty face and/or a nice body are overlooked even by the nerdier or less attractive men. </p>
<p>Guys, on the other hand, have it far easier. As a girl, I can tell you that most girls are FAR more forgiving of physical attributes than guys. It’s pretty common to see a very cute girl dating a not-so-cute guy just because of his personality. Yes, “hotness” does play a factor in whether a girl likes a guy, but I can guarentee you that 50% or more of the attraction is personality/intelligence/humor. </p>
<p>Perhaps I’m just bitter. But … sigh. It sucks to be a well-meaning, fairly smart but definetly not “pretty” female. No matter how kind or how hard you try to help others, people will always discount you and disfavor you for your whole life. :(</p>
<p>jeez if you tell yourself your not pretty then definitely others won’t think it. you really have to give yourself some credit. guys can be forgiving as well, I suppose we just like it more when you at least try to look nice. I know there are things wrong with that, but generally guys aren’t complete ■■■■■■ bags. But like I’ve said a billion times before, it all goes back to confidence. If you’ve got it, guys will want you. So please don’t put yourself down, that’s the unattractive part.</p>
<p>okay, i know this is kinda old, but wow. how hot is godfather? not everyone talk about themselves being hot…haha</p>
<p>Not to sound too arrogant but I consider myself quite “good-looking”. lol. And I don’t date “good-looking” guys, the ones at my school at least are shallow, conceited, stupid and in general jerks. I dated a couple when I was younger and learned by lesson. I choose to date more intelligent nicer guys who may not be as traditionally good looking. And its worked out well for me, they are much better boyfriends.</p>
<p>hahaha…i guess i’m not too bad…i mean blonde hair, green eyes, slim…
it’s good to have some self esteem :)</p>
<p>having some self-esteem and confidence is quite important. if you don’t think you’re beautiful who else will?</p>
<p>that’s true. hey you know how to quote? everyone does that Quote: thing…</p>
<p>no idea. maybe someone else does. I’ve been wondering that.</p>
<p>i just learned it by the thread this want<em>a</em>scholarship guy posted.</p>
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<p>hmmm</p>
<p>yes!
first you put brackets and put ‘quote’. then blah blah blah, then you end it with the same thing but with / in front of the word quote. hope that made sense…</p>
<p>Yeah I think it works now</p>
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<p>woo hoo! haha</p>
<p>blondchick77, i’m a girl…haha</p>