Parents of the HS Class of 2026 (Part 2)

So for grad school my company paid for it, imagine my surprise when I found out I had a big tax bill at the end of the year. The money they paid the school counted as income for me and moved me to a new income bracket. All of a sudden I had to write a big check to the IRS, still better than paying grad school costs but unexpected.

I am pessimistic about the future of schools in the US, without foreign students who will pay for masters/PhDs ?? I have saved for each of the kids since a young age and can afford to help them pay the cost of undergrad attendance. But for grad school/PhD which S26 might want to do he’s on his own. So either a grant from someone or he’ll have to go to Europe. I imagine that’s going to be a common scenario for future students.
USC officially broke 100k/year this year, 150k/year can’t be that far behind.

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I know it’s still early days on this but so far D19 has got 50-100% funding on her masters offers, including from one of the schools that cut back its masters programs this year.

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Things that worked for us when we went on campus visits after D24 got admitted:

  1. Advised my kid to come up with 1 or 2 questions to ask either on the tour or to ask somebody else in the admissions office while we’re there.
  2. Told my kid that after the visit is done and we’re leaving campus, I’m going to ask kid to name 2 things they liked about the school and 2 things they didn’t like as much…and to explain why. This was really helpful in getting my child to open up a bit so you got more feedback other than “Good, fine” when you asked them what they thought of the college.
  3. If possible eat a meal on campus. Doesn’t have to be in a dining hall. Eat in the student union or somewhere within walking distance off campus.
  4. Drive around the area surround the college. Find out in person (not just looking from home on Google maps) how close or not the nearest Target, Walmart, CVS/Walgreens are from campus.
  5. Expect that for your kid, this visit will be different than college visits when they were in the “I’m applying” stage.
  6. Don’t be afraid, as the parent, to ask 1 or 2 questions on the tour, but be chill about it. Don’t be one of those embarrassing turbo parents who dominates all of the Q&A with a litany of questions. One that I’ve used a lot is “What’s your favorite place to study on campus that’s not in your dorm room?” Or “What’s your favorite class you’ve taken so far?” Or “What do you like the most about attending College X?”
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Five more to go, four of which she’d strongly consider, all highly rejective, so… :woman_shrugging:

Just for fun, I wrote down my predictions for the nine schools she applied to regular decision back at the end of February.

She’s heard from four so far, and I’ve been wrong on all four counts :face_with_spiral_eyes::face_with_spiral_eyes::face_with_spiral_eyes:

:heart_eyes:

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Of the 5 results that came out tonight, rejected from Bowdoin and Amherst and then WL for Williams, Swarthmore, and Washington & Lee. D26 knew all of those were highly competitive, but thought she did enough for acceptance. So, how do people handle waitlists and actual acceptances? Pick the best actual acceptance she would be happy to go to and then hope she gets accepted off the waitlist and switch?

Saturday morning edit: Add Davidson College to the waitlist.

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Yep. Pick the best actual option and if things change – deal with it then.

Sorry for the disappointment, though. Does she have a favorite school she’s been accepted to?

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Yes.

#1 thing to NOT do is not pay an enrollment fee at ANY college by 5/1…that’s a good way to possibly end up not attending anywhere in the fall.

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WL at Scripps - this was probably the most disappointing WL. I thought she had a great shot. But she has some lovely acceptances.

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We’ve had a heavy WL week too. She’s going to pick her favorites of the acceptances, write LOCI to the WL ones she really likes and then see what happens!

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Excited to share that my S26 has chosen to attend Tulane in the fall. He learned today that he has been offered a spot in the Altman Program (dual-degree program with 20 students selected each year), and that sealed it. We are excited for our son to spend the next four years in the Big Easy!

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S26 was accepted at Pitzer and rejected by Pomona however after thinking about it more he decided it’s a bit too far and small for him. Did you guys visit Scripps ? lovely school but it feels so remote.

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We had stunningly positive news here today. D26 got into her reach which was Haverford, and got a surprise acceptance at Scripps today! It means she is done with announcements. We really thought Haverford would deny her so we’re all in a bit of joyous shock. She also got into all of the schools she applied to, which I’d feel awkward saying anywhere but on this forum. I have lots of thoughts right now, some of which I may share in a post later this weekend. But, mostly I am so happy for her. She developed a list that was so suited to her, and it worked out better than we ever imagined.

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Awesome!

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That’s fantastic!! So happy for you guys

This is so helpful. I literally cut and pasted it into my notes app. Thank you!

Her top 4 that she has acceptances to are:

Hobart & William Smith, Kenyon, Gettysburg, and Dickinson

All but Kenyon had significant merit that cut the COA almost in half while Kenyon had half of that merit amount. All are good schools, so she will go through and we will decide over the next couple weeks. We are going to HWS in April and I’d like her to pick one more to go to as well. Thanks for the recommendation on how to navigate the WL. The saga continues!

Saturday morning edit: Add Davidson College to the waitlist.

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That future is now, actually it was already here at least 15 years ago… I’m going to include a chatgpt summary of the research and work group product of the VIN Foundation - which is the non-profit arm of VIN (Veterinary Information Network) which is the online community of around 100k Veterinarians from around the world (predominately US) with general practicioners, specialists, academicians and researchers. I served on the VIN F Board as voting member/treasurer now over a decade ago - and the problem had already been an issue for about 10 years or so when I joined the Board in the late 00s. It has become the number one issue our US veterinary professionals face, dwarfing all others (other than suicide, which not coincidentally we have battled for the ‘top’ spot there for the last decade as well and is due in no small part to the debt problem).

For those of you who have kids who may go on to advanced degrees (academic or professional), you may want to skim this as well so you can see if there are warning signs arising in your child’s fields of study;


Veterinary Student Debt: Structural Mismatch & Long-Term Consequences (VIN Foundation Synthesis)

1) Core Structural Problem: Cost of Education vs. Income Growth

The veterinary debt crisis is fundamentally a structural imbalance:

  • Cost of attendance (COA) has risen faster than earnings for decades.
  • Typical graduates leave with $150K–$300K+ in debt, with a large share above $200K
  • Starting salaries, while improving (~$100K–$130K), do not scale proportionally to debt levels

VIN’s central conclusion:

Veterinary graduates routinely leave school with debt equal to or exceeding 1.5–2.0x income, a level that “does not lend itself to traditional repayment.”

This creates a system where standard amortization (10-year payoff) is often mathematically infeasible.


2) Interest Accumulation: The Hidden Accelerator

Two structural features worsen the imbalance:

  • All federal graduate loans are unsubsidized → interest accrues during school
  • Many students borrow full COA via Grad PLUS loans

Result:

  • Students can accumulate $20K–$50K+ in interest before repayment even begins
  • In high-cost programs, annual interest can approach a full year of tuition

This means graduates often start repayment already underwater, with balances higher than what they borrowed.


3) Why Income-Driven Repayment (IDR) Becomes the Default

Because traditional repayment is unaffordable, most veterinarians rely on income-driven repayment (IDR):

  • Payments are based on income (typically ~10% of discretionary income)
  • Early-career payments can be extremely low:
    • ~$500/month on ~$250K debt with ~$80K income
    • As low as $0–$134/month during internships/residencies

VIN’s key insight:

IDR is not a strategy to “repay” debt — it is a cash-flow management system with eventual forgiveness.


4) Negative Amortization: Many Borrowers Don’t Cover Interest

A critical (and often misunderstood) dynamic:

  • Monthly IDR payments are frequently below accruing interest
  • This leads to negative amortization:
    • Loan balances grow over time, not shrink

Example from VIN modeling:

  • ~$250K loan at ~6% interest accrues ~$1,200–$1,300/month interest
  • IDR payment: ~$500/month
    → Unpaid interest accumulates each month

Result:

  • Many borrowers:
    • Do not reduce principal
    • May not even cover interest for years or decades

Newer plans (e.g., SAVE) can subsidize unpaid interest, but the underlying affordability gap remains


5) The 20–25 Year Endgame: “Tax Bomb” Forgiveness

Under IDR:

  • After 20–25 years, remaining balance is forgiven
  • However:
    • Forgiven amount is typically treated as taxable income (except PSLF)

Implications:

  • Borrowers can face a large one-time tax liability (“tax bomb”)
  • VIN models assume:
    • ~30% tax rate on forgiven balance
  • This requires parallel savings over decades just to handle the tax

Key outcome:

Many veterinarians will carry debt for their entire careers, then settle it via forgiveness + tax payment, not repayment.


6) Psychological & Professional Impact

VIN emphasizes that this is not just financial:

  • Persistent debt leads to:
    • Chronic financial stress
    • Delayed life decisions (homeownership, family, career flexibility)
  • It influences:
    • Career choices (e.g., avoiding lower-paying public or rural roles)
    • Burnout and wellbeing across the profession

7) Bottom-Line Diagnosis (VIN Framing)

The veterinary debt system has effectively shifted from:

Traditional Model:

  • Borrow → repay principal + interest → debt-free in ~10 years

Current Reality:

  • Borrow → enter IDR →
  • Pay income-based minimums for 20–25 years →
  • Balance grows or stagnates →
  • Forgiveness + tax liability at end

8) Why the Problem Persists

VIN identifies three levers — none fully addressed:

  1. Reduce cost of education (COA still high)
  2. Increase veterinarian earnings (growth modest vs debt)
  3. Increase subsidies/support (limited systemic change)

Lowering interest rates alone does not solve the problem, because the issue is debt-to-income mismatch, not just cost of capital


Final Takeaway

The veterinary student debt crisis is not a short-term affordability issue — it is a structural financing model failure:

  • Debt levels exceed repayment capacity
  • IDR converts loans into long-term managed liabilities
  • Many borrowers will never meaningfully pay down principal
  • The system effectively relies on eventual forgiveness rather than repayment

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Fordham is a very special place. You will not find a more caring, curious community. The mission is truly lived and breathed every day, not just by student-facing offices, but the staff, faculty, and students. They are truly remarkable. The Jesuit schools really do have something unique. (And I say this as a non-religious person). Fordham is extremely inclusive. Social justice is part of the school’s fabric and the president is outstanding!

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THank you so much for sharing this. We are also not religious, but Jesuit education interest me. I want college to be worldview-expanding for my daughter. I went to a Catholic junior college for one semester and the comparative religion class I was required to take stands out in my memory. My daughter will have a lifetime for STEM, I think it’s helpful to study humanities. Can I DM you with other questions?

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Your point 5 scared me for a second. I had loan forgiveness and was slightly panicked thinking I had no tax bomb, did I screw it up and will now have huge penalties, then I saw the PSLF parenthetical, and that is what I had.

That option really freed up my career choices and allowed me to do work for the public good despite my student loans. I worry about its future.

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