@Derivativeofx
“There are some people who have sex willingly while being underaged. It is because they love each other…so is it justified for them to have sex? This case is the exact same situation as the example I used. Both are just as guilty. Not because it was underaged, but because they decided to touch and kiss before marriage. In my eyes, kissing and touching is as bad as raping.”
This is pretty appalling. I hope you are either trying to get strong responses or maybe you are just very young.
The difference is: the former is sex; the latter is violence.
In the USA, we generally don’t think it’s our business what other people’s sex lives look like, unless someone’s rights are being violated. I fail to see any moral imperative for things to be otherwise in society.
"So men lower your gaze! In this society today, it is considered normal. If you calculate the number of rape cases in america, there has been MUCH more rape cases now than then. People say that we have changed and we can live with it, but people are the same as before and we need to bring back the rules that have been placed to the country. America was also a lot more religious before… but this 21st century really changed america… to the worse. "
As @LucieTheLakie noted, an increase in reporting does not mean an increase in incidence of rape. Just because a couple is married (or a person enslaves another) doesn’t mean that the sex is automatically consensual, but the law held that way unfortunately, tragically, for too many years.
I should note that in all countries where sexuality is legislated as @Derivativeofx seems to imply it should be, there are gross human rights violations, governmental violence, and things we would all call “cruel and unusual” (e.g. Honor killings, Stonings of raped women, etc.)
The problem with LaBrie isn’t about kids getting carried away or being immature bozos. The problem is that he is a proven predator with some kind of narcissistic or other issue that means he does not view other people (particularly women) as though they are full humans like himself. As a teacher, sometimes we have boys who are worried that being sexually interested means they are predators - it does not mean this. Most boys are good guys who, if a girl cried and said, “no, I don’t want that” would get turned OFF not turned ON.
I am concerned that predatory sexual-violence behavior can get white-washed when men are concerned that normal sexuality would be decried. But that’s not at all what’s going on here.