To the College Class of 2013:</p>
<p>It has been a long time since you submitted your applications to your dream universities — the next week or so will be decision days for most U.S. colleges.</p>
<p>Please know that it doesn’t matter what the final outcome of your decision is — admit, waitlist, deny — you, yes you, are the same amazing person you are yesterday, today, and forever — whether it is before or after you received that email or checked that decision website. If a person is known by the company he or she keeps, then you have been in the company of an amazing group of students from Hwa Chong, Singapore and around the world — for colleges and universities around the world where there are simply too few seats to spare.</p>
<p>For most of you, you might think that the decisions by colleges will be life changing, but in reality as your parents might tell you, the only thing that is life changing is you. The day when you were born; your first day in primary school, secondary school, JC and national service; the day when you completed your A-levels. You — your triumphs, dreams, tragedies, your passions, inventions, obsessions — are not going to change because of these letters of admission or denial.</p>
<p>Your seniors and juniors have every confidence that you will all end up some place amazing, be it Harvard, one of Singapore’s local universities, or somewhere in between. If you don’t believe me, ask any one of your seniors who were rejected by Harvard or MIT whether they are enjoying their time in university — overwhelmingly, the response will be a resounding “YES”. This is just further proof that no matter where you are accepted to, your gift, talent and energy will make room for you.</p>
<p>So thank you for allowing me to share some of this wild and crazy 6 months with you. I wish each and everyone of you all the best in your endeavors, wherever you are. Some of you will have an amazing experience at my college in sunny California, and some of you will have an equal or even better experience somewhere else — because truly, college is what you make of it.</p>
<p>I leave you with the words of Alexander Bell, “When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.” Good luck for the next few days!</p>
<p>Frank