It’s back to they are very different in environment - city vs. not really. Weather, Sports, etc. Duke taking a bus each day first year but the campus stunning. Penn is nice but not stunning (yes, that’s opinion) - what’s hers… I’d think that’d solve it one way or another.
There was a story a week or two ago - a student flipped a coin to decide two schools. They just didn’t know.
Then the coin landed on one school and the student said - I wish it landed on the other.
They did know - they just didn’t realize they knew.
Perhaps that’s yours as well?
I’d get if these are two like schools (in environment) but they’re not.
Has she been to both?