My deepest condolences. Please know this is always a harder situation than we first anticipate. Take the time you need, don’t worry about us. Sending love.
Oh, I’m so terribly sorry. My deepest condolences. Wishing you peace.
thank you everyone. We are taking it one day at a time. It’s harder on my MIL, she lost her husband of 56 years in January to lung cancer. My hubby was her only son. We finally convinced her to seek grief counseling. I will take my time and let you know when this is done (again, not hurrying to do this.).
I hope you feel the love and sympathy from so many on this forum. Take care of yourself.
Oh, your poor MIL. I hope she does go to grief counseling. I know I’d also have to seek more help.
I am so, so sorry. Yes, I’m glad your MIL is getting help. It’s been crucial in my family.
Yes, we have finally convinced her that it would help her. She can’t seem to get past one of the humps… Can’t make decisions, type thing. The good thing is that she has said she will not do anything major- buying, selling, etc. within this first year.
I am so sad to hear this news @ChuckleDoodle . Please don’t worry about setting up the board or doing ANYTHING that isn’t part of helping you cope and grieve. My condolences to you, all of his loved ones and your MIL.
I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories be a comfort to you.
@ChuckleDoodle Adding my condolences. Death of loved ones is difficult, even when it’s a cancer death and you’re glad (in a way) that they aren’t suffering any longer. Sending hugs and love for the time it takes to get to a new normal.
@ChuckleDoodle, I’m so sorry. May your memories bring you comfort. Take care of your needs and those of your family.
I am so sorry for your loss!
@ChuckleDoodle - so sorry to hear this. Sending much sympathy to you and your family.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for all of your family.
I only read this site on my laptop. So I just increase the size with the old Ctl and + method.
Oh @ChuckleDoodle I’m so sorry to hear this news. I’m sure there is a lot to process and handle. We will be here when you’re ready. Take all the time you need.
((Hugs))
thank you, everyone, for the prayers and well wishes. The kids and I are doing ok, trying to find our footing in the ‘new normal’… I’m still here and willing to do the new website. Just need a couple more weeks to finish up the paperwork. Who knew that so much paperwork is generated when one dies. argh. Feel free to message me if you have any questions. I expect to start moving forward with ideas again in September (early, not late).
Do what’s best for you and your family…that matters most right now!
@ChuckleDoodle, I am so very sorry for your family’s great loss. Wishing all of you peace as you forge through your new normal.