What to do if freshman daughter comes home for holidays and basically lives with older boyfriend?

[Nrdsb4]

@Knowsstuff

@romanigypsyeyes. You were “both” in college, making something of yourself. This is not that situation. I just have visions of this guy not doing anything all day and she’s in college trying to better herself. I have been witness to people bringing down others for “love”. Kids dropping out, moving OOS to live the dream then end up on welfare with no education /jobskills. Yes, I know I am overthinking this.

Just because someone’s not in college doesn’t mean they do nothing all day!