“Since you don’t drink or smoke yourself, these are pretty creepy presents. How old is she?”
I do drink, and she is 22.
Have fun at the party.
Very seriously, listen and pay attention.
If you go to the party and the girls are drinking DO NOT under any circumstances start drinking to fit in. You have no experience with alcohol and could find yourself very drunk very quickly.
DO NOT get caught up in drunk girl drama. Leave first.
and especially, DO NOT have sex with or make out with drunk girls at parties. Some drunk girls who were open to sex change their mind in the morning and in the worst possible case believe you raped them…
It is a recipe for disaster.
Go to the party and have fun.
oh and if this thread is all a joke the advice still stands for any other kid reading this.
14- 7-31-15
I do drink*
So you started drinking last weekend?
Maybe she thinks if she studies with you (one of the top students) she will have better grades.
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Enough! Move on!
Be very careful don’t get drunk especially when you don’t drink, you could get yourself in trouble. Go to party but don’t drink.
@emeraldkity4 said:
Not only that, the OP has said 3 separate times that he does not drink.
And now he does.
I think someone is between semesters and is bored.
Bad influence. You already acquire bad habits.
Oh thank you everyone. I mean I drank three times in the past, just a little though. So its not mew to me. I wonder though if they are just trying to be polite, they have not texted me the address of the bar as of yet. Thank you everyone though I won’t do anything bad.
Enough! Move on
I don’t think she likes me, but I just wanted to be their friends as this group are the only people I know who were friendly beyond saying hi in class. I am new here,
do you have any outside interests?
Community service? Politics, or outdoor activities?
With the political campaigns picking up, that is a great way to meet people and give back to your community.
Don’t hang out with people whose values you do not share, you are not likely to meet anyone you have more in common with, and others may assume that you do share the preoccupation with drinking & smoking.
I think this girl is looking for someone to pick up the check. I think she thinks she’s found a sucker.
It’s summer and you started school already?
I think he mentioned it’s a summer O chem class.
Ok, it sounds like he thinks this is the only group of friends he is making. When Fall starts there will be a lot of people you will meet.
“I think this girl is looking for someone to pick up the check. I think she thinks she’s found a sucker.”
Thank you everyone. Well, I went yesterday and asked what I should bring. She said, “nothing but your smile!” She uses hahaha and ‘!’ in basically every text she sends me.
For the bars, she paid for herself, I did not pay for anyone else. She hung out with me quite a bit, and we talked a lot. I was surprised. I basically followed them all. I drank a bit at her house and ate some cake. In terms of gender, their were just three males, and two were gay (I am straight) and many females.I am guessing that she just invited me because she felt bad.
So, today we studied together. She said that she was going to go get some drinks with a friend. I wonder why she did not invite me today? Was I boring? I was talking a lot, but it was boring talk (about college, etc) as I didn’t know anyone. I asked her who the friend was, and she said, 'You don’t know them."
I wonder why people are still not inviting me anywhere?
Should I just invite myself? Just text someone and ask, can I join you?
Why are you asking us? Ask the girl you are interest in.
I don’t think she is interested in me. I was just wondering though why no one ever wants to hang out? We talk a lot and sat ver close together and I went to her home but she still does not want to be my friend?
Sounds like she enjoys you as a friend. I think her response to your original invitation makes it clear she has no romantic interest but she clearly likes you as a friend.
Most of the time, if a friend has plans to meet other friends that you dont know for drinks, the friend will not invite you along. People meet up with friends to catch up on old times, to have a confidential conversation that they wouldn’t have if other people are present, or just to have the kind of casual conversation that is harder to have when a stranger (to one person is present). I wouldnt expect to be invited if my very best friend were meeting up for drinks with someone I didnt know. It is meaningless that she didnt invite you!
You do want to be careful not to cone across as too clingy as that could be very annoying.
Is it this girl in particular, or are you pretty much just looking for people to hang out with regularly? I am wondering if you might find it useful to join some campus organizations or even a church? Maybe you have already tried that?
Based on what you have posted, I think this girl likes you but is not interested in you romantically. This happens. I like a lot of men, in whom I have no romantic interest. It is not an unusual situation. However, I don’t think it is in your best interests to continue to pursue her. It keeps you from meeting other girls with whom you may have more in common.
'I wonder why people are still not inviting me anywhere?"
Is there anyone else around, on their own, and not getting invited to join in? If so, ask that person to go with you for coffee or ice cream or whatever. Look around. I doubt you are the only one feeling left out. Good luck!