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<p>That was my story from almost 2 years ago. Fast forward to today: D is still dating the same long-distance BF. She is a junior, he is a sophomore- still at different schools; they see each other about every three weeks. They are still going strong, and my daughter has started talking to me about “when we get married…”</p>
<p>I have to admit, that makes me worry a little, but they are both good kids, very level-headed, and very focused on their school work and future careers. (D has a near-perfect GPA and a great internship lined up for the summer.) I can’t see where the long-distance relationship thing has kept either one from being involved on-campus, as each has plenty of friends and on-campus activities. </p>
<p>When my D talks to me about her BF or her relationship issues, I try to be sympathetic and non-judgmental. It helps that we really do like the BF. If D’s grades were bad or if she were unhappy, it would be a different story, but how can I argue with the way things are now? </p>
<p>Part of me says “but aren’t there other guys you want to date?” D always says “Why would I give up a great thing for the possibility of a so-so thing?” As things stand, they seem good for each other and have made this relationship work.</p>