What to do if freshman daughter comes home for holidays and basically lives with older boyfriend?

I agree.

Most of us are here because we see the value of a college education. I wouldn’t like it if a bf was bad mouthing the act of gaining a degree. But let’s not paint all non college educated people with such a broad brush. I daresay there are plenty of people who don’t have a degree but who nevertheless can carry on a lively and informed conversation about many subjects.